tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-90511135776583869562024-03-13T03:03:52.544-07:00The Thrifty ChicksCultivating a robust reuse market.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.comBlogger139125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-41195464881924365582012-02-25T07:27:00.000-08:002012-04-24T16:13:31.205-07:00From the archivesWhen reviewing old posts or interviews hindsight can be a curse. In this case, I think, it was a blessing. This piece from <a href="http://www.thriftculturenow.com/">Thrift Culture Now</a> delivered a message worthy of running again.<br /><br />
It’s a myth that frugal people never shop. People often think that to be thrifty one must swear off all spending unless it falls into the basic necessities sections of their budgets, and even then they must buy the cheapest versions of those basic necessities. I know I would often find myself battling my conscience, trying to resist the urge to spend while stifling my love for quality, stylish clothes and house wares. Then I found the blog, The Thrifty Chicks. <br />
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The Thrifty Chicks was created in late 2008, when four friends decided that they needed a creative outlet for their thrift shopping expertise and their desire to “build a more robust reuse market.” With the pen names, Ms. Shopping Golightly, Ms. Gently Used, Ms. Goodie Wilhelmina, and Ms. Modern Mommie, these women write about shopping in a way that dispels the falsehoods of frugality. <br />
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According to Amy (aka Ms. Shopping Golightly), people often confuse frugal living with great sacrifice and zero fun because they don’t understand the real meaning of the word. <br />
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“It appears that many misconstrue ‘frugality’ with ‘miserly’ which means to compromise, be stingy and parsimonious, connoting unhappiness in saving money. To be frugal, by simple definition, is to not be wasteful,” she explains. “By living thrift, we are not depraved.”<br />
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Just one read through the pages of this fun, informative, and thought-provoking blog, and a quick glance at the fantastic photos of Ms. Shopping Golightly and her family modeling their thrift store finds, and you will see that they certainly aren’t deprived. It’s shocking to read that the beautiful, quality clothing (Amy and her family often where brands like, Anthropologie, Nordstrom, Banana Republic, and Hannah Andersson), furniture, kitchen wares, and toys that would cost one a small fortune to buy new, have been purchased for a few dollars at a variety of reuse venues including, thrift stores, garage sales, or online.<br />
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But don’t think, even for a minute, that this blog is only about light and fluffy shopping fun. Along with the great tips on how a frugal fashionista can find great deals, a strong and important message is conveyed; where you shop and how you shop has significant environmental and economic implications.<br />
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Amy explains that The Thrifty Chicks’ goal--to create a more robust reuse market--is heavily rooted in a desire to lighten the impact that the American new product market has on the environment. “Our current shopping behaviour costs a lot more than the price tag we see. It carries a heavy carbon footprint that no one’s fully deciphered. We know the calories in one stinkin’ pickle because the FDA regulates food labeling. But we’ve no idea the cost of manufacturing and shipping of a new pair of blue jeans made in China across the world to the U.S.,” Amy says. “The carbon footprint of our shopping is undeniably large and it continues to grow, even during a devastating recession. This makes no sense. Product reuse can significantly help lower the flow of cheap, new, energy intensive goods into the country.”<br />
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Making a conscious effort to buy from the reuse market not only helps to keep more stuff out of landfills and decreases the demand for goods that are environmentally damaging to produce, but the reuse market is also a lot easier on our wallets, and that’s good news for anyone who’s looking to save money.<br />
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Amy says she thinks that consumerism is completely out of whack in our society. We no longer give careful thought to our purchases, considering the quality and price of a particular item, but instead, we give in to impulse and buy things because they’re trendy or we think that it gives us a particular image. She refers to this consumption epidemic, and the marketing that draws us into it, as a dumbing-down of our culture. These days, even frugality is marketed.<br />
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“Save more, buy more. That is not a frugal practice,” says Amy. “For the honest frugal-natured consumer, money saved is just that--money saved, not spent.”<br />
The way in which we’re spending—largely without thinking—has fueled the “economy of crap,” as Amy calls it (check out Amy’s thought-provoking post entitled, The Harbingers of Decline). Companies produce more and more stuff that adds no value to our lives and eventually ends up in landfills. The environment is more polluted and ravaged of resources, consumer debt rises, and the only ones who gain are corporations and Wall Street.<br />
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“Sometimes I dream of a rush of angry consumers tossing Homer Simpson Chia-Pet Heads, plastic singing fish, and chocolate fountains upon the trading floor in protest to all the crap that is created with a cause for profit, not need,” says Amy. “That’s my dark side.”<br />
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But even though it’s easy to point the finger and blame the producers of the crap, Amy knows that it’s consumers’ poor spending habits—what and where we buy--that ultimately keep the latest versions of the Chia-Pet in production. The ‘buy-more,’ or even ‘buy-more-than-you-can afford,’ mentality has definitely contributed to the growing levels of consumer debt in our society.<br />
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“It wasn’t that long ago credit cards were a hard-earned badge of honour and debt was a sign of disgrace. Now, credit cards rain on us like a ticker tape parade,” Amy says. “I cannot count the number of times my underage daughters have been pre-approved for credit cards in the mail.”<br />
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The Thrifty Chicks aim to wake-up consumers and teach them how to make better decisions when it comes to spending; where to spend and how to decide what’s worth spending money on. In particular, Amy says that she and the other women behind The Thrifty Chicks hope to “help young consumers learn more about being resourceful so that they will spend less and save more for something lasting in life like a home or advanced education, rather than the alleged ‘latest styles’ that change as soon as the clothes hit the racks.” <br />
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Amy offers some sound advice for how to improve your spending habits:<br />
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1) Learn to honour the value and not the cost: Amy says that this means stopping to consider whether or not an item fills a legitimate need or whether you’re only thinking about buying an item because it’s inexpensive. “Put an end to the super size, the more is better mentality and you’re off to a good start,” she says.<br />
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2) Learn how to identify quality: Amy says that “an ignorant shopper will spend more money,” so getting to know the feel of quality materials and looking for well-constructed clothing is a great money-saving skill. She recommends starting at the thrift stores, where you will find quality cashmere and silk, as well as less-desirable rayon and acrylic. You can feel the difference in the materials and will be more discerning when deciding what to purchase. Amy says she wore a black dress (that she purchased at a thrift store) inside out, on more than one occasion, because the quality was so high that she couldn’t tell which was the right way to wear it. She paid $5 for that dress.<br />
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3) Determine your ‘flinch point:’ Amy has a system that she uses when she’s thrift shopping to help her decide what she’s willing to buy. She says that her personal flinch point is $5, and if an item costs more than $5 then she thinks long and hard as to whether or not she will buy it. Only at thrift stores could the $5 flinch point makes sense. Compare that to regular, new market retail: “Imagine what it’s like to pick up a new jacket from Banana Republic with the $99.99 price tag still dangling next to the $5 Goodwill tag, only to stop at a major retailer on the way home and buy a tube of mascara for $9,” Amy says.<br />
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4) Purge: Amy says that a good look at the items in your closet could help to put your spending practices into perspective. Plus, if you haven’t worn something in a year, then chances are you’re not going to. Donate it to go Goodwill where it will resurface in the reuse market.<br />
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I’ve always been pretty good at saving, but it was spending that I needed to work on and I don’t mean that I needed to spend more. After reading some of the Thrifty Chicks' posts, I realized that I wasn’t always fulfilling my thrifty living mantra, not to mention doing my part for the planet. The cheapest option isn’t always the best option. The best option and, therefore, the best use of my money, is the clothing and the wares that are good quality and going to last. Only in the reuse market can you consistently find items that are both good quality and inexpensive.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com38tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-34557868929295489762011-11-02T05:21:00.000-07:002018-02-08T10:48:02.902-08:00About the only item, aside from groceries, we buy new without second thought<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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This weekend I picked up this family of horses at Goodwill. They are tucked away for the holidays for my little Piper. I will not wrap them. On Christmas morning, they will be sitting somewhere about the living room for her to spy. Besides, would it not be animal cruelty to box them? From my daughter’s imaginative point of view, these horses have feelings, personalities and eventually names. Shouldn’t I respect that?<br />
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She loves horses and when she cannot play or ride real ones, she turns to her extensive collection of <b><a href="http://www.papo.com/">Papo</a></b> and Schleich figurines. Piper ensures she has the current <b><a href="http://www.papo-france.com/catalogue">pocket-sized catalogue</a></b> to determine what Papo figurine she might like next for a treat or birthday. Sometimes she just looks at it like I used to thumb through the JC Penney catalog. Yes, these are mass produced toys, but the quality is certainly not lost.<br />
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Yes they’re imported from France and Germany and, yes, they’re plastic. But, the only shelf packaging they have is a small price point tied about one of their legs, easy to remove without leaving that annoying sticky residue. Tear it off and you’re ready to play. Daddy doesn’t get a hernia attempting to open some ridiculous packaging.<br />
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In this photo we see the fairies have rounded up the horses in a tinker toy corral.</div>
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I know a lot of children play with Papos and Schleich. Rarely, I mean, very rarely does one find them in a thrift store. I imagine that’s because they become a legacy toy, something that is kept for the next generation. They withstand the wear. This is just like it’s highly uncommon for one to spot a wooden train set in a thrift store.<br />
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A Papo or Schleich can even enchant adults and most other brands of plastic figurines just don’t make the cut.<br />
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The family of horses I found at Goodwill are not Papo. They larger figurines, more expensive than their little Papo and Schleich cousins. These horses sit on the toy store shelf in loads of packaging for about quadruple the price. Do consumers ever think of the price of packaging? No one knows for certain. If we did know, we’d probably rather not pay the price of the cardboard penitentiary and just set our toys free. Regardless, I’m happy to pay the thrift store price, sans packaging.<br />
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I graduated college in the early 90’s recession. Until I landed my what I will call the career job at The Lincoln Park Zoo Society in downtown Chicago, I worked the floors full time at Crate and Barrel. They did something unique in store display and design. Naked and alone stands the KitchenAide Artisan Empire Red Stand Mixer, daring Crate and Barrel consumers to see it for what it really is.<br />
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Time after time, I witnessed the disappointment in a customer’s eyes when they eagerly brought an espresso machine off the display shelf up to the register desk and I’d journey to the stock room to pull an espresso maker, new in the box to send home. Often, the customer didn’t want the one in the box. They couldn’t see it or touch it. “Can’t we just take this one?” While holding the actual item, they realized that photographs on the box were not enough to make them satisfied about their purchase. The same thing happened with glassware, china, and pot and pans. We watched it over and over again.<br />
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Let’s have a round up of wise toy purchases for children. Aside from the Papos and Schleich figurines, my daughters have experienced a lot of mileage on Thomas the Tank and Brio wooden train sets, Tinker Toys and Lincoln Logs. If you’re going to invest in toys, invest in something that will be a toy, meaning it spawns imagination not hands it over.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "book antiqua"; font-size: 12pt;">Thoughts? Ideas?</span>Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-73740374163475263312011-09-26T09:29:00.000-07:002011-09-29T10:28:34.493-07:00Unconventional Harvest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBru1xSd3ykFs2lc6iNKAY0-uubcPC1lrdIbWDmGGFxusV5CULsQDbF9H0Vb9I3BN1f7kU023CUA7r1Vfv96Tr44jMmLempMG9WvmKimWy9YHkOuAB7uc6kxS0vL8un63OKzydBuvtlx53/s1600/September266thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.comshoppinggolightly-b.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"> </a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBru1xSd3ykFs2lc6iNKAY0-uubcPC1lrdIbWDmGGFxusV5CULsQDbF9H0Vb9I3BN1f7kU023CUA7r1Vfv96Tr44jMmLempMG9WvmKimWy9YHkOuAB7uc6kxS0vL8un63OKzydBuvtlx53/s1600/September266thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.comshoppinggolightly-b.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="314" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBru1xSd3ykFs2lc6iNKAY0-uubcPC1lrdIbWDmGGFxusV5CULsQDbF9H0Vb9I3BN1f7kU023CUA7r1Vfv96Tr44jMmLempMG9WvmKimWy9YHkOuAB7uc6kxS0vL8un63OKzydBuvtlx53/s320/September266thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.comshoppinggolightly-b.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The autumnal equinox was last Friday, the 23<sup>rd</sup>. Fall is my favorite season. Not only am I a person who loves sweaters and hats, but also I love a good harvest, an unconventional one of course. We’ve been harvesting vegetables and berries from the garden for some time. I’m writing about the stuff that falls from trees and I’m not talking apples (though apples are appreciated).</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Last week the call came in from Modern Mommie. “They’re falling! Bring some bags and meet me on the north end of Marion Parkway now.” She didn’t need to say what, I knew. Acorns. We scavenged the grass and gutters for acorns with the endearing help of Modern Mommie’s three-year-old daughter who simply refers to them as “corns.” She was completely enchanted and very serious about collecting.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Why? Because acorns are beautiful! A mass produced holiday <i>anything </i>made in China doesn’t stand a chance when placed next to an acorn. Yeah, not even a plastic acorn can beat the real deal, but they manufacture them anyway and people buy them when they could just pick them up for free. Go figure. Once you bring them home, roast them in the oven at about 180 degrees to be rid of any little natural critters (worms) that like to burrow into the nut. If you pick up an acorn with holes in the nut, best to leave that one on the ground. You'll note the caps will fall off after the nut dries and shrinks, a little wood glue will take care of that. <br />
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An aside: I've always wondered what the people in China think as they paint decorations for Christian and Jewish holidays. I'm certain its a very different experience from when their ancestors made items that pertained to their culture. Funny how for thousands of years imports from far away lands had high value and often represented fine craftsmanship, something friends came to admire. Now it could be a plastic Easter egg or a plastic carnival whistle.<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">The horse chestnuts will be falling soon. Here’s a garland I made several years back. I’ve about 30 feet of horse chestnut garlands, maybe more. Readers will ask so I’ll explain now. To make this garland, take freshly fallen horse chestnuts (which are NOT edible) and grab that drill. Drill holes completely through the chestnut while fresh (try to drill after they’ve hardened and be prepared for a trip to the ER). Roast the chestnuts in the oven on a low setting, say 180 degrees, until they dry out and harden up. String them up and hang them in a place to completely dry. If there is ANY moisture left in the nut, it will mold from the inside. Best to ensure it’s really good and dry. That’s it. You have an organic, homemade garland that will decorate your home for years and cost you nothing but some fond memories collecting and string.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Here’s something to think about. Young children love collecting acorns and chestnuts. It’s something they can do without help. Bring some cider and gingersnaps along when you go. When the holidays arrive the acorns and the chestnuts hang on the tree and the children feel a nice satisfaction of seeing they truly contributed to the magic of the holiday tree.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Modern Mommy’s little one had a terrific idea. She told us we need to place our “corns” in a “nature bowl.” She was right!</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So, out came the wooden bowls from the thrift. I prefer to purchase bowls carved from one piece. Bowls at thrift stores may come home a little scratched but sandpaper will take care of that. I often sand off any finish and prepare the freshly exposed wood with mineral oil. They’re simple and eloquent and cost something crazy in convention retail. But, you don’t need to pay that price when you thrift. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our bread bowl for $3. Now's the time to prepare citrus and clove pomanders to dry in time for the holidays. Young children enjoy this most when the fruit is pre-punctured in patterns, cloves slide in the peel without struggle.</td></tr>
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">There's one more reason I take note of the autumnal equinox, it's Mr. Golighty's birthday. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Among a few things, we made a hand stitched book of poems about his favorite things. </td></tr>
</tbody></table>Please list in the comment, other handmade holiday decorations your family enjoys. Ah, if only bittersweet grew wild in Colorado. Wait, roses do. Hmm, something with rosehips would be nice.<br />
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Least I not forget the Ponderosa Pinecones. They're a bit sharp but beautiful. A small eye hook drilled into the base with a ribbon slipped through make for something beautiful to hang.<br />
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<i>Post Script: On a recent reconnaissance mission I saw that Pottery Barn is selling wooden balls with acorn tops glued to them, made in China. $14.50 buys you 56 fake acorns. I don't have 56 acorns, I've a couple hundred. They're also selling wine corks. I doubt they're recycled corks. Rats! A missed opportunity to compare the cost of wooden bowls. </i><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-91641446040319632172011-09-19T14:14:00.000-07:002011-09-21T07:54:55.920-07:00New Position: Blue Jean Distresser<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgreLNcAT-sSsic5AYsDNnpJcw94e_q0eSkBwqXgrOwDtkZkjw69ie9Nb0BJw9KbQq7e26p_rwNAV5qFwsnrkIwWpWUSP-aAyHxMj2u-ORCl0EFOeAFwmHrULUJ3G5dt_hiZv8V0DbWmd8t/s1600/Blue+Jeans.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgreLNcAT-sSsic5AYsDNnpJcw94e_q0eSkBwqXgrOwDtkZkjw69ie9Nb0BJw9KbQq7e26p_rwNAV5qFwsnrkIwWpWUSP-aAyHxMj2u-ORCl0EFOeAFwmHrULUJ3G5dt_hiZv8V0DbWmd8t/s400/Blue+Jeans.jpg" width="313" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzmgSpq0vYn-HCMrqhmCX0IEWVC6WvXgRqrS1jv5qrch3WtUf9FgcI4i_3JpjncV9Xq2HnrzcfmBHeP7yrQH5hyphenhyphenOwaKpCPtXpVV0nE8h4eMGzbyAOA6_7Fi9ydhpKnO1LC23SU66Y48MYF/s1600/Blue+Jeans.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><br />
</a></div>Officially announcing availability as a Blue Jean Distresser for the fashion market. Now Hollywood starlights can wear and <i>feel</i> the truly and honestly distressed jean from hard, backbreaking work. No more fake wear from machine scrubbing or acid washing. The Real Wear market is open! <br />
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I’ll even offer a line of Double Distressed starting with a pair from the thrift store. That's twice the honest wear!<br />
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They’ll be green too! These jeans will be engaged only in healthy work. Hike mountains, garden, bike, build… honest actions to establish the true and telling signs of honest work.<br />
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Special orders can be taken too. Say you want that horseback look. I’ll ride horses. Or, perhaps you’re more of a construction type, I’ll remodel my home and accent with a few paint splatters from the roller.<br />
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Be assured, the extra $200 - $900 you will be paying for that distressed look will be genuine wear. Take these above for example. They’ve held up over ten years and now I only use them as “work” clothes. I’ve planted countless gardens, hiked mountains, painted rooms, refinished furniture and many other life activities in this pair.<br />
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See! Here’s me and Petite Poe at 12,000’ on Mount Emmons in this very pair in 2004. Yup, these jeans have truly made the circuit.<br />
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Such masterpieces take about ten years to create so order now! I’m certain there are plenty of prospective Blue Jean Distressers just waiting to be called to action. Please list your name in the comments and we’ll start our list of professional Blue Jean Distressers.<br />
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Call me crazy but, I think the machine market is quite passé.<br />
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Leave your comment to become a professional Blue Jean Distresser. Only honest workers apply. Women who work family farms, I beleive you will now have a second job.<br />
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We shall be the John Henry of Blue Jean Distressers! Except we shall not die in the end! Our hard efforts will put our children through college. Just in ways we hadn't quite imagined.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-39197746383660353482011-08-24T18:24:00.000-07:002011-08-25T05:42:19.238-07:00It ends and begins on Septemeber 2ndOn September 2nd, a group of about 300 American consumers will hit a personal milestone. With the exception of a few items like undergarments, they will not have purchased any new clothing for a full calendar year. The will have completed their pledge to <b><a href="http://www.thegreatamericanappareldiet.com/">The Great American Apparel Diet</a></b>. The first annual diet was launched in 2009.<br />
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Often times when people remove something from their lives for a set period of time they race out and indulge once they’ve met their goal. Like, if I gave up baked sweets for a year? I’d have a huge sheet cake waiting for me to jump upon and roll around in so that every pore of my body could soak up that butter, cream, vanilla, sugar…<br />
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I don’t have the impression these consumers are going to be renting U-Hauls to hold all the goods from some wild shopping frenzy after September 2nd. <br />
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I imagine they’ll simply sign up for another year of not buying new. I imagine they’ll recruit friends to join.<br />
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Radically changing your shopping behavior in America is a personal and spiritual journey. We’re blasted practically everywhere we go to purchase items, many items that serve no real personal purpose. <br />
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It’s time to consider if you’re ready to join this group for the coming year. Should you take this challenge and hold to it, I promise other parts of your life will change too, all for the better. I’ll sponsor you. Email me when you’re fighting the urge.<br />
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Yes, many people treat me like I’m “cute” because I shop reuse. This is not fluff. This is how we choose to spend our money, our personal resources. <br />
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Me? I'm now in need to go out an buy a batch of cupcakes.<br />
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If you know of other retail diets, please list them in the comments. Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-33678222346184570072011-08-17T15:37:00.003-07:002022-07-06T12:43:20.794-07:00The Consumption Economy Is Dying—Let it Die al a "The Atlantic"Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-46842477402479594772011-08-10T16:19:00.000-07:002011-08-15T19:48:55.903-07:00Pushing the re-set button on American retail<div class="MsoNormal">My mental back-burner's been simmering since the former post, “<a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2011/08/plea-to-anthropolgie.html">A Plea to Anthropologie</a>.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I fell short on a few critical points about this business proposal. Keep in mind, the mission of this blog is "dedicated to a robust reuse market." We do this by offering tips, testimonials, photos and stories from our readers. Sometimes we must pull back our sleeves and climb out on the fragile limb of brainstorming alternatives to the current retail system. Strange how this can be such a touchy subject.<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Our American retail system has effectively constructed many mental obstacles on our consumer highway. New product retailers cling fast to their current MO - which is slowly (and not so slowly in some cases) destroying their customers' purchasing power. Even the most simple business model shows we can't buy much if we have no money. Who wins then? Example, do we wait until we’ve tapped all the global oil wells before we are forced by a monumental crisis to significantly make change?There is such a thing as change that can benefit both retailer and consumer. It's time.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It messes with my brain to witness how short-sighted the American cultural ecosystem has become. We’re short-sighted on energy, education, economics, health care. Even our eating habits are short- sighted. Short attention spans, anyone?<br />
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Obviously businesses are in business to first make a profit, or they can't do anything else, but that doesn't mean that's all they can ever do. Sadly, whenever someone hints that businesses <i>consider</i> having a social conscience, the market stops smiling and wags that nasty finger, declaring such a gesture would be one from a"socialist" or "anti-capitalist." Tell you what. Businesses better start caring about their American customers. Guess what guys, the majority of us? We've just about maxed out on credit and have little assets left. If you don't think it necessary to care about the health of your customers, I recommend you move your retail centers overseas to the countries were you've outsourced our income. However, you will need to adjust your price point to a third world economy. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I can't believe how much unsolicited credit lenders at throw at us. Should I jack the Golightly spending up to its credit limit, I can't fathom how the debt would ever be paid off, even with our modest but very smart mortgage. I’ll bet there are consumers out in Credit Land who could have bought two homes with all the (non-mortgage) interest they’ve shelled out. Someone please explain how this is good or right.</div><div class="MsoNormal">I once stood in line behind a woman at a major retailer who had two credit cards denied on her purchase. The clerk then gave her a 10% discount by opening a new credit account sponsored by the retailer. The clerk was thrilled because she received a commission for adding a new credit customer and the customer was thrilled because she now had more credit to mismanage. So there you have it. Spend money you don’t have. It’s okay. Really. Just live in the moment with your spending, it's the USA!</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Here’s a few of what I perceive as mental/cultural obstacles that get in the way of people coming to understand the former post. If you don’t like Anthropologie - great - substitute a store you do like and believe sells a lasting, quality product.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b>Secondhand is not a market strictly open to poor people. </b>I believe major discount big-box retailers have done a bang up job pushing the economically poor through their racks and double-wide register lines to purchase cheaply made crap. Unfortunately, this population has been, for some time, targeted as a growth industry. I cannot imagine how any architect can now design a structurally sound bridge to connect the gap between the haves and have-nots that "sustain" current conventional shopping. How about the corporate retail moguls be the first to <i>test</i> out that bridge? It might be wise to think about the purchasing patterns of such a large (and growing) segment of our society. Don’t ya think? Instead of thinking about methods to milk the poor, how about methods to give the poor milk so they can have strong economic bones to run that economic mile?</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b>Secondhand is a market - plain and simple. There seems to be a misconception that profit cannot be pulled in this market. Au contraire! </b>Goodwill has been widely recognized as a terrific business model. Okay, yeah, they are run off donations. But! Stores like <b><a href="http://www.buffaloexchange.com/">Buffalo Exchange</a></b> are thriving. We don't need to be victims of the usual demographic pigeonholes. We can dare to brainstorm alternatives.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b>Consumers don’t balk on buying a used house or car. Why the drama and disgust on other used items (unless they're considered antique or vintage)? </b> Most readers of this blog have no hang ups with secondhand goods. But, step outside your community and examine mainstream America. They have serious problems with it, almost a borderline phobia. I know, I know! I run into my friends at the neighborhood thrift and no one is embarrassed. It’s like meeting for coffee. I’ve friends who have significant income who shop thrift and feel not an ounce of shame. But there are people who would rather indiscriminately abuse $40K in credit card power by purchasing $178 blue jeans (yes, at stores I cite on this blog) rather than even <i>considering</i> a similar (or even <i>identical</i>) pair for $4.99. This may be true even if the original price tags for $178 were still dangling from the thrift store pair! My fellow thrifters, these people don't need our pity, they need our help! Maybe conversion to second hand can be an act of civic responsibility. Don't think twice about it<b>. </b><br />
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<b> There are more points to be scored in mass reuse than recycling. We mostly recycle down in product quality.</b> The business world likes recycling because it doesn't really offer much competition. Recycling is a worthy practice. There is a now a huge industry that supports recycling. Note recycling requires a respectable use of energy to transform the product. Recycling = Good. What's wrong with Reuse = Good? <br />
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<b>Reuse fundamentally requires a simple exchange via transaction. Purchasing a gently-used wardrobe? That's competition for new product. How strange that most Americans like the word competition, but not if it's from reuse.</b> Fine for department stores to sell a "lot" of unsold merchandise to close-out retailers. But reuse? Forget it. I guess the American businesses want us to just chuck our reusable items in landfills to clear out our homes so we can purchase more new stuff. This is actually happening with some large retailers. They destroy unsold merchandise before placing in it the dumpster. Remember this January <a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/01/why-are-two-major-retailers-torturing.html">post</a> in 2010?</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b>It is entirely possible to build a reuse economy that caters to different economic tiers.</b> There is a relatively small system of a tiered reuse market in place but, it’s in desperate need of growth both in product and customer quantity. There’s enough inventory in American homes to sustain a sweet secondhand market. Think of all the stuff that’s been acquired via decades of conspicuous consumption. Wow. And it’s just sitting there in closets, attics, and basements. We’ve even had an entire storage economy housing this stuff! Double wow.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b>Our market system was once globally admired because it encouraged ingenuity, not just greed. </b>Used house and car market aside, its an irony that we lack the collective creativity to succeed in a statistically significant way through a more open and prevalent resale reality.</div><div class="MsoNormal"></div>Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-22873326003513674072011-08-01T08:59:00.000-07:002011-08-17T08:31:35.388-07:00A plea to AnthropolgieDear friends at Anthropologie,<br />
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Anthroplogie stores are more than a shopping environment, they are a refuge; at least for me they are. The classic and vintage-inspired clothing is a relief against the keystone cop approach to trendy fashion hooking most Americans and dressing them like lost children in a deep and desperate identity crisis, one that will never find peace. <br />
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Antropologie, your stores have provided many Americans with fashion/style rehabilitation. <br />
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The problem is many Americans cannot afford your current prices.<br />
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Given this, I ask you to stand behind your product, it’s quality and test of time by opening an Anthropolgie resale market. Do not develop a lower grade product to broaden your market like so many other retailers before you in the form of false outlets. Do not compromise your quality or design. Take your current customers and offer them the opportunity to sell back items they no longer need. Offer them store credit towards new purchases to strengthen that initial market and open a new market of second hand Anthropolgie. Toss in authentic vintage if you like. Go beyond selling and teach. Yes, teach your customers about quality. Teach us how to own something wonderful and wear it for 20 years. Be good to your customer, consider what will keep them healthy and they will return the good will by remaining loyal and marketing your efforts over coffee with friends. What better marketing effort is there than personal testimony?<br />
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The current store theme evokes the feeling of a French flea market. Designers decorate stores with simple, everyday items and make them beautiful if not enchanting. Why not broaden that to wholly embrace the French flea market style economy? <br />
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Please lead American consumers in a market that is not addicted to trends, but integrity, dignity and poise. Be more a kin to the original flea markets of France. Help us appreciate re-use for your profits, consumer pocket books and the Earth’s general well being. Promoting reuse would make a bigger difference than selling reusable shopping bags.<br />
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Please help pioneer this new market and smart business model. I’m not certain that many companies would buy back their products from consumers when their product is cheaply made or is so trendy, it’s obsolete a month after purchase. You, on the other hand, have the goods to go the distance.<br />
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Smart, economically sound customers are good customers. When all the other customers have maxed out their credit, your stable customers will go the distance.<br />
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I have hope,<br />
Ms. Shopping Golightly<br />
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<i>Posted in the Comments but thought it should be elevated as a Post Script:</i><br />
I can only hope that retailers go back to the old ways of business. Reciprocity has become passé in so many segments of our current culture, especially in the retail world.<br />
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I hope that someday retailers learn they cannot bleed consumers of their assets to meet Wall Street projections. How short-sighted can a buisness be? The monetary bloodletting of a customer base is either extremely selfish or stupid. Most American consumers are out of cash, maxed out on credit, unemployed or underemployed.<br />
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Competition must not always boil down to money. There are plenty of other ways to operate a smart, sound and lasting business model. I've no doubt that many will view these words with disdain. Too bad, we've reached the point of a retail revolution.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-63957949727733669032011-07-21T07:38:00.000-07:002022-07-06T12:44:19.482-07:00Start by publicly blowing raspberriesMainstream American consumers are cultivated purchase items en masse. We even purchase “bargains” en masse. Lost in the world of retail sales, shoppers forget they will not be using the item they acquire 75% off original price. It becomes a pointless act of acquisition and often begets suffering, especially in the realm of debt. Retail therapy might have a short-term rush, particularly when a sale is involved, but in the long haul its consumer hooey.<br />
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Thrift store gurus have taken a giant a step closer to contentment. Enlightened shoppers do not purchase bargains. They purchase needs and honest wants at prices that work to their personal best interest. This is nearly spiritual and I see this only in thrift stores where there are no studies conducted to boost sales via types music, scents, product display placement, etc. Most thrift participants will stop and do a once over on the contents of their carts before check out. A few items will likely go back to the shelves.<br />
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A thrift guru develops a knowing of how often an item pops up in stores. I contently pass on purchasing the cashmere sweater with original retail tags of $200 still dangling for $4.99 if I am on the fence. No regrets. Cashmere sweaters cycle through thrift stores like water through a wheel. <br />
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Yes, we all fall from time to time.<br />
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Best to tend to needs and take the time to learn wants, not be told what they are. Our current culture has done a splendid job of making dictated and trendy wants take priority over needs. Now most Americans are in terrible economic, mental and physical states of existence. Don't even get me started on what this is doing to the health of our planet. Think about it. <br />
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Wow, this post is becoming very lose and stream of consciousness. Okay, must be a reason.<br />
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Want to tend to needs first? Start by, pledging to disregard commercials and glossy advertisements. Marketers no longer bother selling products. Be assured, they’re selling wants. Create the want and the product will follow. I predict there will be commercials for commercials. Wait. Who am I fooling? That’s probably already happened. Yes, we’re that messed up.<br />
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I’d be so honored if just ten readers would stand in front of an advertisement in a subway station, on the sidewalk, anywhere in public and spend five seconds blowing raspberries at it. Please report in via comments at what and where you blew that raspberry. <br />
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Would you join in a pledge to cover your ears and blow raspberries at commercials? It’d be a great family tactic. Add humor. Blow off some steam. Get a better check on reality. Raspberries are good for us. <br />
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I sound very immature by asking this. Am I? Sometimes silly ridiculous actions are required to break silly, ridiculous binds.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-30994754019401689622011-07-14T15:11:00.000-07:002011-08-17T08:29:01.627-07:00What are Snake Eyes?Many people struggle finding quality clothing at thrift stores. Five 10-foot racks packed with dresses can be a bit overwhelming. I witness at least one person painfully thumbing these racks item by item upon every visit. This is not necessary.<br />
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Develop a keen sense of <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/01/thrift-sense-and-snake-eyes.html">Snake Eyes</a></b> and those racks aren’t intimidating or time consuming. Stroll along them and items worth considering practically fly off the rack, like a pie in the face. It’s that obvious.<br />
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<b>Confession </b><br />
I thought this post would be an easy, quick write. But, it wasn’t. Thrift store Snake Eyes is a state of being. Like the unspoken rules of a family, it’s hard to document with an accompanying manual. <br />
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No, Snake Eyes isn't a cult. However, the hold American conventional retail culture has on many of us is rather cult-like. Snake Eyes is more of a meditation.<br />
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Snake Eyes quickly directs a person to their style preferences, quality and condition. Ah ha! Maybe poetry is more appropriate for explaining Snake Eyes because hitting the mark with prose is difficult.<br />
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<b>Only in the thrift store</b><br />
Snakes Eyes is NOT possible in the conventional retail world. All the items, (i.e. skirts, pants, etc.) must be on one rack for direct comparison. Think about the department store. It’s organized by brand and within that brand prefabricated ensembles are the key to section organization. All this might be great to boost the average sale, but it intentionally messes with a shopper’s concentration. That’s not nice. <br />
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<b>Personal Style</b><br />
Before you begin, consider style preferences. You have them, right? <br />
<ul><li>What color families flatter your hair, eyes, skin? Note this is not, “What is your favorite color.” Big difference. </li>
<li>What styles do you like that don’t like you? We all face that annoyance, round hole with square peg.</li>
<li>What types of fabric do you prefer? I tend to stick with organic fibers avoiding rayon, acrylic, polyester, nylons, etc. Sometimes there is a compromise with a blend. </li>
<li>Solids or prints? If prints, what styles? Paisley? Floral?</li>
<li>What types of tops do you prefer? Most thrift stores sort by tanks, short sleeve t-shirts, long-sleeve t-shirts, short sleeve blouses, long sleeve blouses, athletic tops, etc. This directs you to the right racks to avoid the department store maze featuring tanks in twenty different sections.</li>
<li>Long, mid-length or short skirts? Fitted or elastic waist?</li>
</ul>Knowing your style is important. It’s a giant metaphor. Think about it.<br />
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There are more considerations when determining style. One thing is certain; style is in the eye of the beholder. Please don't fall prey to those nasty trends. Trends are, by nature, designed to fail. Why buy in to something like that? When tempted, I want you to remember a recent event that nearly gave us Fashion PTSD: the attempted comeback of the stirrup pant. [Shivers.] <br />
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Modern Mommy did a post on <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/search/label/Modern%20Mommie%20Stories">the basic foundations of a wardrobe</a></b>. Have them.<br />
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It is critical to know your current clothing inventory. Instead of a closet, I have a wardrobe. The clothes hanging in the wardrobe fit the season. I’ve no doubt my wardrobe is significantly smaller than the average American's. However, knowing inventory helps bolster your diversity of clothing. How many Americans have huge closets and end up wearing the same three ensembles ad nasuem? Makes no sense and loses cents. Plus, if you’re buying to your tastes and not trends, the odds increase you’ll wear what you purchase.<br />
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Once there is familiarity with style begin with an initial fly over the racks. When something striking your style comes into view, quickly look at the fabric to gauge its quality. If it is quality, pull the item for the next step, inspecting condition.<br />
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<b>Quality</b><br />
The thrift store often offers consumers an unusual choice. Quality and crap can be the same price. Oddly enough, when offered something of high quality for the same price as crap, some people buy the crap. Sorry to write so cheeky but this is testimony to the dumbing down of the American consumer. Follows are some off the cuff thoughts on quality.<br />
<ul><li>T-shirt fabric: How is the color holding in the material? Is it the fabric pilled or soft? What is the weight of the fabric? Take Hannah Andersson children’s clothing. Excellent fabric. Items can be washed hundreds of times with little fading or compromise to fabric integrity.</li>
<li>Cotton and blends: Again, how is the color holding and what is the fabric weight? I prefer fabric with a high thread count. It’s soft, durable and has a nice sheen. Today I pulled a beautiful dress by Garnet Hill from the girl’s section based on its sheen. Unfortunately, it was the wrong size. </li>
<li>Sweaters: To me, knitted items are cake. Hundreds of sweaters can be eliminated just because so many manufacturers use a cheap yarn. This is a no-brainer. It’s also wise to learn to recognize hand knit items, pronto.<b> </b></li>
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<b>Condition</b><br />
Most thrift stores inspect and sort clothing before wheeling it out on the racks. To learn more about this, I spent a day volunteering at the sorting tables at Goodwill. The sorters inspect clothing for stains, rips and stuff that is just not going to sell. Items that don’t make the sales floor cut are sold in huge lots at low prices to buyers often purchasing for charities in third world nations. (I’ll have to write some day about that experience. I pulled a strand of pearls out of a huge bin among other eye-popping items, in just a few hours of volunteering. It was quite an operation.)<br />
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When inspecting condition, the construction this is a telling sign of quality. How is the stitching? Is it lined? Turn the item inside out, learn it.<br />
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Also look at signs of wear. Some quality thrift store garments might need extra attention (i.e. missing a sash, easily replaced with a scarf or ribbon, a button, etc.). If wool, look for moth eaten holes. Simple things like this. The reality? Shoppers should do the same for conventional retail purchases. I’ve bought many a new item only to discover it has serious defects.<br />
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If the item passes inspection, in the cart it goes and on to the dressing room.<br />
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<b>Making the decision to purchase</b><br />
Once fit is determined, a few more questions need to be asked. Is the item dry clean? Want to keep a dry clean item? You have two options: 1) Pony up for the cost, 2) Test the item at home to see if it is hand washable, many “dry-clean” items are. But when you pay $250 for something labeled as such, who wants to risk a hand wash test? When the cost is $3.49 and you love the item, eh maybe a hand wash test is not such a bad option. A funny sidenote on hand washing: When my hand washing experiments fail, Little Pie scores because the item is now her size.<br />
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Another very cool thing about shopping thrift, you know how the item washes. Ever bought a new sweater, followed the instructions on washing and have it pill after the first wash? Oh is that annoying and just plain wrong.<br />
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The final question is, “Will I really wear this?” On the fence? Consider passing it up. A thrift store guru passes on steals upon every visit. Experience over time teaches you that possibilities in thrift stores never cease. You don’t have to buy that cashmere sweater for $4.99 with the retail tags of $250 still dangling from it. Why? Another will come around. Really. <br />
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<b>Reviewing the steps</b><br />
Let’s trim this down. The basic steps are:<br />
<ol><li>Know your personal style, what you like and what is flattering.</li>
<li>Look for quality as you walk aside the racks. When spotted and it matches your personal taste, pull that item before someone else does! </li>
<li>Inspect the item’s construction and wear.</li>
<li>Try it on.</li>
<li>Consider price and potential dry cleaning fees.</li>
<li>Ask yourself the final question, “Will I really wear this?” If the answer is “Heck yeah!” then you’ve just scored big at the thrift store.</li>
</ol>I realize this might be more of a living document in an attempt to explain this thrift store phenomenon. Thoughts on this will continue to pop up now that this is percolating on the backburner. Best to stop now before this becomes a tome.<br />
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If you have Snake Eyes, please help by adding notes in the comments. Or if you prefer, write some Snake Eyes poetry in the comments. Haiku is always fast; remember the formula, five-seven-five.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-28970608094432781692011-06-29T11:17:00.000-07:002011-06-29T11:17:49.061-07:00In a moment or in the moment, what’s it going to be?In today’s terms “a moment” confirms an associated task is in our work queue and will soon receive attention, blah, blah, blah. How unfortunate.<br />
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The notion of a moment being the present is passé. Our multi-tasking, future-oriented culture makes the present an afterthought, if it considered at all.<br />
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We all do this. We’re practically forced to. If we don’t, we’re left behind. Write, “Lives in the moment,” as a skill set on a resume? Don’t expect that phone to ring. <br />
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Let’s face it, the abandonment of the moment is self-inflicted Time Abuse. It's truly wearing down our somatic and mental health. It is becoming a social disease. <br />
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Given this, I’ve been reflecting. When do I truly experience the moment? When are my mind and body at peace? This is critical to learn and teach my daughters.<br />
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Yoga classes put me there – but I’ve been neglecting attendance. The Rocky Mountain high country puts me in the moment – but I’m only there about two weeks out of the year. Gardening sometimes gets me there. No doubt; I need more paths to the present. We all do.<br />
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I realized thrift shopping puts me in the moment. Really. After paying bills (in this economy) with paper bag in hand to prevent hyperventilation, I often rush to the neighborhood thrift, a few blocks from our home. As of late, these visits are bordering on daily. Odd thing to do, go to a store when you’re worried about money. <br />
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I hadn’t really thought about the recent increase in trips to the thrift. Slowly strolling along side the long racks of dresses, skirts, blouses, or shorts with <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/01/thrift-sense-and-snake-eyes.html">Snake Eyes</a></b> fosters the moment. I am focused, attuned to one task, the environment, my emotions and body. The store staff is scratching their heads in wonderment as to why I want to be there so often. I understand their questioning my sanity. Occasionally volunteering there has taught me it’s rough work. I lost two toenails because I wore the wrong shoes when volunteering. Really, I did.<br />
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My hands might be empty upon leaving the store, but I walk in peace and there is no price tag for that.<br />
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Possibilities are exposed and hard to ignore in the thrift store. Walk in with no prediction, <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/10/psychic-shopping-do-you-have-gift.html">Psychic Shopping</a></b>, and a vital curiosity of what could be? I promise things will happen. Maybe it’s new-agey stuff. Perhaps James Redfield should have included “Shop Thrift” as one of his insights in The Celestine Prophecy. <br />
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If I take something home, it rivals the cost of a cup of coffee, not a monthly cell phone bill so no <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/09/retail-remorse.html">Retail Remorse</a></b>. <br />
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Yesterday I was in need of escape. How completely WRONG is it to write that I needed to escape to the moment?<br />
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Not only was my mind set at peace, but I walked out with beautiful quality clothing for my growing daughter that will ensure she enters high school in style and I won’t need to cash out her college savings to pay for it. I also was rewarded with a 1940’s 16mm film projector in mint condition that is worth about at least 10 times what I paid for it (two times my <b><a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/01/are-you-familiar-with-thrift-effect-if.html">Flinch Point</a></b>). As a result, we’re preparing to host weekly summer vintage film fests in the backyard for friends to attend. Sure, we could use as laptop projector and watch DVD’s but there’s something about the ticking of the projector that makes for an unforgettable ambiance.<br />
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Maybe our vintage film fest will help our community live in the moment at least one night a week. When in search of something life changing, we all begin with baby steps.<br />
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Please, help us all. What puts you in the moment?Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-56916994959148935442011-06-20T15:11:00.000-07:002011-06-20T17:13:26.666-07:00Shop with ShoppingPromoting the reuse market via personal journey seems to be my passion. It’d be a dream to run into a municipal or state Office of Economic Development and fire up programs to grow the American reuse market. Most politicians shy away from this because – we can assume - of corporate campaign funding. I know for certain, at least one of my pleas has landed on the desk of one significant elected official.<br /><br />For years many friends, relations and readers have hinted an online resale shop is in my future, but managing a retail operation doesn’t make me want to fist pump and scream, “Yes!” That’s why I admire and respect friend <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://apronthriftgirl.typepad.com/apron_thrift_girl/">Apron Thrift Girl</a>’s sage teachings of resale on her blog. We’d make a good team, Apron Thrift Girl in the field, and me on the policies. We talk. We dream.<br /><br />As with many Americans, the Golightlys have serious economic woes. For some time, I searched for Mr. Golightly’s Father’s Day gift. Just in the nick of time, I found an expanding magazine file rack for his office. He loved it. He Googled it to learn its history. He saw how much it’s selling for online. Though he loves the item, he’d rather have the $ for our family (Mr. Golightly has been a proponent of an online resale shop for a while). I started to give this some serious thought because it was Father's Day.<br /><br />To learn more about the resale market, it would be wise to know it from more sides. Soon, The Thrifty Chicks will be opening an online store [Exhale]. I have anxieties. When friends tell me to be an interior designer, I morph into Gertrude Stein and note “My taste, is my taste, is my taste“. Plus, I don’t know a damn thing about color theory, another excuse for feeling intimidated. When our house was to be painted and I was handed the paint color options (over a thousand variations on a giant wheel) and gave it directly to Modern Mommie (a trained artist). I knew the colors: green house, plum trim with a café au lait accent. Modern Mommie’s fingers flew over those colors had the perfect palate in five minutes. This would have taken me 72 hours to come close to anything satisfying. I don’t mind sharing my taste, but feel a bit weird feeling about selling it. We all fear rejection.<br /><br />Unlike the conventional retail market, shoppers of resale have direct, easy access to the main product suppliers of reuse: thrift stores, yard and estate sales – the places for the lowest price point. The online resale markets like EBay and Etsy determine the highest.<br /><br />My dilemma? I don’t wish to price gouge. Yet, I need to earn enough to justify my time, it’d be foolish of me to invest my time into something that hardly clears minimum wage.<br /><br />Basically, I need to determine a good finder’s fee strategy.<br /><br />Most items I will sell will be finds that come around maybe once a year. That’s a lot of time in thrift stores. And, my inventory will start with items I value. Let’s just say I’d make a terrible snake oil salesman – how people do that is beyond my scope of understanding.<br /><br />The store will start with several years of inventory I’m willing to part with because the Golightly's are purging. However, when out shopping for items we do need (like clothing for my growing daughters) and I see a beautiful antique Graniteware muffin tin for a few dollars and while I do bake muffins, this tin is very rare find, and it would be profitable to sell (I looked it up). This would be like passing up on an extravagant meal for pennies when you haven’t yet had dinner. [Sigh.] Having a kitchen wholly outfitted with fine antique French cookware sounds wonderful. The reality? We need money and I could use some experience in selling reuse. And, when you thrift, you learn that what goes around comes around. It’s just is a matter of timing and luck.<br /><br />I’d like public input on what reasonable finder’s fees might be. I want to entice people into my market, but I don’t want to either drive potential customers away with the price, or shortchange my family. Any thoughts?<br /><br />While you think about this, here are a few photos of items found this week. Some will go up for sale online.<br /><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><br /></span>Petite Poe fell for this antique French crystal atomizer...<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3uq7Oyr_OD5Bn9rKcs62RQe7VDeF71DsMKCAjAVxaa3ubL5Q3xcGT1Vub3MOuYiHuXhMAkiTfT_1TWXnJBUmtifz2fwx9Xvrc2nF__gK4TFmmQtlhVOxewANQ5V_zyyQbYzuWxWUe2vQb/s1600/atomizer.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 307px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3uq7Oyr_OD5Bn9rKcs62RQe7VDeF71DsMKCAjAVxaa3ubL5Q3xcGT1Vub3MOuYiHuXhMAkiTfT_1TWXnJBUmtifz2fwx9Xvrc2nF__gK4TFmmQtlhVOxewANQ5V_zyyQbYzuWxWUe2vQb/s400/atomizer.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620428848323620594" border="0" /></a><br />and these vintage Norman Kaplan designer shoes that must of come from the closet of Imelda Marcos for I cannot understand how a shoe could be so old and in such pristine condition. Who buys shoes and then doesn't wear them? Why?<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6JlTT4bgCUDVhQ1fka_svJ1A0ljNdZNDvMdyvtTJ2ItCWTHE4PPOL3-vI2aF4LlQY4f9gdbkRtJdNR5uZbTRyxKl4crvM7sunUsOdrOa0DBbpFPsImYNBLUHWNQ80Ucz-NpsWmXealK3M/s1600/designershoesshoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 273px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6JlTT4bgCUDVhQ1fka_svJ1A0ljNdZNDvMdyvtTJ2ItCWTHE4PPOL3-vI2aF4LlQY4f9gdbkRtJdNR5uZbTRyxKl4crvM7sunUsOdrOa0DBbpFPsImYNBLUHWNQ80Ucz-NpsWmXealK3M/s400/designershoesshoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620429825976846178" border="0" /></a><br />Then she found this Anthropologie skirt...<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOC6-1xM_dc1wdupd4PUwHnyS62EfEalkdB3LA3zZNUKJmJzW5fFdTKfBJA9ZxAUYUECYb3kze-wK1XfvyZpOBmkJTdruOYSXl6_BDpnl2miGEQb8a2c_05cs6uP05N857jASn23SO8Uus/s1600/anthropologieskirt.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOC6-1xM_dc1wdupd4PUwHnyS62EfEalkdB3LA3zZNUKJmJzW5fFdTKfBJA9ZxAUYUECYb3kze-wK1XfvyZpOBmkJTdruOYSXl6_BDpnl2miGEQb8a2c_05cs6uP05N857jASn23SO8Uus/s400/anthropologieskirt.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620430455250326130" border="0" /></a><br />to which I found this full skirt with tags still dangling from an import store.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXWL07_6W4KQPxXATa3I_u31zSQR2Pkqvr8lc2cLK_GX4lx85vFZf_zvifeFEItX_EiyGi8A52x0RB95TstDet8a81_ZpVvuO3Lg6bbelHJIX7m3QjX_BdlpH20Sad4bBRn_5dDKgSkfiR/s1600/importskirt.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 254px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXWL07_6W4KQPxXATa3I_u31zSQR2Pkqvr8lc2cLK_GX4lx85vFZf_zvifeFEItX_EiyGi8A52x0RB95TstDet8a81_ZpVvuO3Lg6bbelHJIX7m3QjX_BdlpH20Sad4bBRn_5dDKgSkfiR/s400/importskirt.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620430754362962658" border="0" /></a><br />It's critical to note that, as an advocate of shopping thrift, it's important I send my daughters out into the world with an enviable style so that when asked where this skirt or those shoes were purchased and say they declare, "thrift" they are honored, not humiliated.<br /><br />This is the antique Graniteware muffin tin I wrote about in the above.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglx_oPO5tPjG1IF3FMj7DjO8kg7GuHKRQ-dXJVjFAFEs4UnjqCnJEFs8roHhIRVJvJqOXqCOJ0o_pnCtBgdOGRp5jrEbXdd_l1fWA009pyLaCC1WS2vZfIwyYglzOO4nQbR87daILEWL6K/s1600/granitwaremuffintin.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 314px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglx_oPO5tPjG1IF3FMj7DjO8kg7GuHKRQ-dXJVjFAFEs4UnjqCnJEFs8roHhIRVJvJqOXqCOJ0o_pnCtBgdOGRp5jrEbXdd_l1fWA009pyLaCC1WS2vZfIwyYglzOO4nQbR87daILEWL6K/s400/granitwaremuffintin.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620432202107376690" border="0" /></a><br />The expanding magazine/file rack and...<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb4Z1K8NJZ9h7P0_jkFyYQqhI46P3sH0QoZ0q_ds8SB2eV2b9dQGZJo3vC0iTuRfpxo_U7EmUp1U722nh0GeYYKDZU-6X6DIcIQxu0mac9Y1a-eYBH8JYamoZjHWkuuxGo8gyKiWeIYakF/s1600/expandablefile.shoppinggolightlythethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 298px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb4Z1K8NJZ9h7P0_jkFyYQqhI46P3sH0QoZ0q_ds8SB2eV2b9dQGZJo3vC0iTuRfpxo_U7EmUp1U722nh0GeYYKDZU-6X6DIcIQxu0mac9Y1a-eYBH8JYamoZjHWkuuxGo8gyKiWeIYakF/s400/expandablefile.shoppinggolightlythethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620432565935281954" border="0" /></a><br />a few office supplies.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfEn92ZR6u1eHfe_6PXndluKwrirzxFx3NDhL6lIVaREFtL_u0uqbeHdQrfyjHJtwlhnbJ5W324q8QEKFCG4LG7kc0NFMBqjxxWsCMJn5-X65JldDH0kfcOZwnmCCgxNghrbQYQ9kLkSQa/s1600/officestuff.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 292px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfEn92ZR6u1eHfe_6PXndluKwrirzxFx3NDhL6lIVaREFtL_u0uqbeHdQrfyjHJtwlhnbJ5W324q8QEKFCG4LG7kc0NFMBqjxxWsCMJn5-X65JldDH0kfcOZwnmCCgxNghrbQYQ9kLkSQa/s400/officestuff.shoppinggolightly.thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620433744448879330" border="0" /></a><br />Now off to inventory; photograph; design and set up a little online store. This is no small project and I need to get over it and myself. Sheesh!Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-60753940577905134242011-05-21T09:57:00.000-07:002011-05-21T14:24:57.520-07:00Am I a grumpy old lady before her time?I cracked yesterday.<br /><br />I went to the price club and loathe going. At the end of the shop, I’ve a cart hauling about 500 lbs of merchandise; so heavy this cart needs to be hit dead on with a 50-yard sprint just to get the darn thing moving. Strategic parking is mandatory, a straight line from the exit. Maneuvering a cart that heavy would be like parallel parking an eighteen-wheeler with no power steering. I don’t have the upper arm strength to manage that nor do I want it.<br /><br />The irony is I go to the price club because it lessens trips to the grocery store. I don’t like grocery stores either. The bright lights, white walls and white linoleum makes me think of other places that we really don’t want to associate with food. An ER? A surgery room? Let your mind wander and it won’t go to a happy place. I actually heard “I want to be sedated” by The Ramones once in a grocery store. How apropos.<br /><br />I pine for the open markets shown on travel shows on PBS. I imagine the aromas, the bartering and the colors. I think, “Now that is living.” And, how cool is it to meet the person who baked the bread or sun dried the peppers? Imagine the knowledge they impart to their customers and the pride they take in their product.<br /><br />Regardless, I’m still trying to reconcile what happened yesterday.<br /><br />Television has never been front stage in the Golightly home. It is only on when we watch it. We don’t have cable and probably watch about five shows a week. To me, television is not an experience. It doesn’t need to be high definition or huge. I don’t need a home theater. I get more from a good read. Really, I do.<br /><br />Again, yesterday I cracked.<br /><br />I pushed my behemoth cart into the first section of le price club, electronics. Down the canyon of televisions I drove and in less than three minutes picked up a 19” flat screen LED television/DVD player and casually tossed it in my cart. It was $200 (40 times my Flinch Point) and weighed less than the box laundry detergent on my list. Just about a year ago it would have probably cost three times more.<br /><br />In a trance I came home and hauled our 10, possibly 15-year-old television and DVD player to the thrift store. My oldest daughter was thrilled to have a new television but showed a deep concern in witnessing this from her mother. Karma did catch up with me for in my state, I forgot to remove the DVD in the old player and had to go back to the thrift. It’s fine to donate my items, but I don’t think it’s right to donate things that don’t belong to me like a DVD from the Denver Public Library.<br /><br />Mr. Golightly saw the new television and told me it wasn’t big enough. So off he went to the canyon lands of electronics. Now we have a 36” giant. To me, that’s huge! I don’t like it. I am so sorry to have ever acted so impulsively for I know there is no turning back without family dissent. Guess I got what was coming. Now when in the room with the electronic beast, it’s all I see.<br /><br />It's in a small, cozy little room in our 111 year home. With the old furniture and lamps mixed with funky curios it screams, "I don't belong here!"<br /><br />Then there is this other part of me that struggles with what my daughter’s feel when they go over to the homes of their friends. Do they notice the hu-gantic televisions? Do they like them? The Wii? The Xbox? Does my frugality and want of a simple life embarrass them?<br /><br />It’s frustrating. I know my daughter would hands down want to ride a real horse over a virtual. Given we live in downtown Denver and don’t have a stable out back, a virtual horse would be more convenient. But what would a virtual horse give her? Skills? Just some hollow un-experience?<br /><br />I struggle almost daily with expanding technology and how the products on the market indicate our cultural priorities. What will my great grandchildren be doing or eating? Just how far can we push the limits of technology before we lose the things that once brought us satisfaction, pride and worthwhile skill?<br /><br />Oh, I can’t wait to get my girls off to summer camp in the Adirondacks! For four weeks they will genuinely live in an honest moment and they won’t need a phone, text, television, computer, Ipod, GPS system or radio to do so. They want action? They play real games. Music? They sing. Navigate? Orienteering with a compass. Write? Use a pencil. Converse? Talk face to face.<br /><br />In the meanwhile, we’ll watch movies on the electronic beast that now resides in our home.<br /><br />I’m certain many people think I’m over reacting. I’ve been in homes where the television truly takes up half the room and the people on the TV are larger than life and they think it wonderful.<br /><br />Have you ever cracked and then regretted it because there’s no going back? What do you think about the expanding technologies and what it’s doing to our children, our pocketbooks and our landfills? Yes, there are pros and cons. But are they in balance? I fear not. Does that make me sound like “grumpy old lady”?<br /><br />Post Script:<br />I believe that 36" monster is the root of my new found craving for over-processed empty calories. Now hand over the Twizzlers and Dots. Supersize them please.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-45302074910245308582011-05-08T21:18:00.000-07:002011-05-09T07:36:32.462-07:00The items we valueI’ve lived in many places in this country and never experienced anything like Denver weather. It’s sunny over 300 days a year. Rain is in short supply in much of Colorado. This is perhaps the only city where if there is a 10% chance of rain, <span style="font-style: italic;">The Denver Post</span> whips out a storm cloud icon to mark the day, never mind the 90% chance of sun. When it does rain (rarely as predicted), I swear the news anchors act like they’re on mass suicide watch, like we’ve all fallen into a major depression because the sun is not visible.<br /><br />Somewhere in Denver, there is a weather switch. Today an anonymous person flipped that switch from winter to summer. Perhaps it was in honor of Mothers Day, the first day of the year when gardeners can be confident their plants won’t be nipped by a frost.<br /><br />It’s time for The Big Summer Clean Up at the Golightly house. Denver’s a dusty place by nature and the urban pollution from that infamous Brown Cloud that covers the entire Front Range makes for more dust. We’ve a turn of the century cellar (not basement) complete with cobwebs. We fly through filters in the constant battle for our furnace to exhale warm, clean air into the house. Toss in three cats (one is a huge, very hairy Maine Coon) and that adds cat hair and furballs. A person with a lot of allergies would need an iron lung to live amongst this family of four. Oh, did I mention we have an old fireplace and love our wood fires on cold nights? Our little Mount St. Helens. Despite all this dust, I’ve made peace with the bunnies. Dust mites don’t live at 5,280’. Our warren of bunnies is hypoallergenic.<br /><br />It’s time to wipe down the walls, clean behind appliances and give the house a good shake so we can lather, rinse, and repeat next year. Deep cleaning our home gets me to thinking deep.<br /><br />There’s an irony in my household. Items I purchased for $5 often have more value to me than something purchased for an easy 50x, sometimes up to 100x the amount on the new retail market. I’ll bet most people who largely shop secondhand are nodding their heads right now knowing that the <span style="font-style: italic;">honest value </span>of <span style="font-style: italic;">an item</span> has little relationship to the cost. We're taught to believe otherwise.<br /><br />Most people believe that thrifting is the thrill of the hunt or that we are pirates out for treasure or that we’re really just veiled conspicuous consumers. Why else would someone shop second hand in America? Discount retailers now give thrift stores a good run for the money opening up piles of new merchandise at costs no-one would have thought possible a generation ago.<br /><br />Okay, I’ll admit there’s a little high one gets when they find a something completely extraordinary for two dollars. I don't think it's all that different from the high that happens in conventional retail when something comes along that truly is "so you." But, I do think that if you're a an <span style="font-style: italic;">honest Bargain Junkie</span>, you're going to catch quadruple the fixes in thrift. Please note there is a difference between a Sales Junkie and a Bargain Junkie. I know this first hand. My name is Shopping Golightly and I am a recovering Sales Junkie. Sale used to be one of my favorite words. But one day, I realized that I wasn't buying sales items out of necessity. It was because I thought little me was out smarting big retailers. Is there any sense in spending money to proudly announce you saved it? I stopped cold turkey and have never looked back.<br /><br />I place more value on my secondhand items because I’m thankful to have them for a cost I wouldn’t ever agree to pay new, or at a cost that I simply couldn’t afford. There is a deep gratitude if an item is both of use to me, and the cost of it allowed me to save more money - or spend it on something more important like a mortgage, or our daughters’ college savings.<br /><br />Most of my pots and pans are thrift store enamel bought for a few dollars apiece. Enameled cookware does not do well in a dishwasher; many of these pieces were made long before dishwashers became mainstream. This has often irritated my daughter when she’s in a rush to load the dishwasher and tries to slip a pot in for a just-this-time wash. When caught she says, “But this is thrift!” My retort is always, “All the more reason to take good care of it." Besides, if my daughter someday wishes to live in Manhattan, she needs to know how to hand-wash dishes because chances are she’ll be lucky to have one foot of counter space and a low pressure faucet, let alone a Maytag.<br /><br />It used to be that we paid extra for quality. Now we pay extra for name brands, forget about the quality. It’s nice there’s a market that can offer that old quality for a few dollars.<br /><br />Not too long ago I was at a meeting and a person was boasting about their new French cookware purchased for a small fortune. I leaned forward, put my elbow on the tabletop with my chin landing in my hand and said, “Really.” I thought of my well-loved <a href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/01/haunted-cookware.html">haunted French cookware</a> that cost so little.<br /><br />Valuing something by touting how much more it cost or because it makes you feel self-important because of that spending is one of the saddest ways to treat money and yourself.<br /><br />Most Americans verbally shun materialism. It's down right stupid to think that purchasing a certain car is going to turn you into an irresistible sex machine. Deep inside we all know this. The truth? Most Americans lack a healthy degree of self awareness.<br /><br />Next time you shun materialism, think about the items you own. Challenge yourself to really reflect. Do you value the item? Do you need it? Or, do you like that it makes you feel like you've arrived. To what you're arriving is a big question and hopefully the answer is not bankruptcy. There is no pride in going broke.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-35151594644928170742011-04-26T18:52:00.001-07:002022-07-06T12:44:31.847-07:00<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:DoNotOptimizeForBrowser/> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">So there are two components that are not sitting right by me: 1) this compulsion that retailers create and set upon the market to buy items for holidays, 2) these throw away items are cheaply made in countries on the other side of our planet and carry a ridiculously high carbon footprint.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">This is no revelation. It’s been discussed many times. But, let’s discuss it some more and maybe a few people will jump aboard and change their spending behavior.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">The calendar of compulsion. Is there EVER a time in America’s retail calendar that some holiday/event is not pushing cheap goods? Let’s think about it:</p> <p class="MsoNormal">January pushes post holiday excess and Valentines candy/trinkets.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">February pushes President’s Day and St. Patrick’s Day.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">March pushes the arrival of spring and Easter. Tack on Mardi Gras too, even if you don’t live in NOLA.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">April pushes graduations.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">May pushes Memorial Day and weddings.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">June pushes the Fourth of July.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">July pushes back to school both in supplies and clothing even though it won’t be cold enough to wear a sweater for another five months.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">August pushes Labor Day, Halloween and “the fall harvest”. What is the point in buying a scarecrow when you have no garden? Or, when the corn has been harvested so there is no crop to protect?</p> <p class="MsoNormal">September pushes Thanksgiving and Christmas.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">October and on pushes Christmas, etc</p> <p class="MsoNormal">November pushes Veteran’s Day.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">December on pushes New Year’s.</p> Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-18002289309085646192011-04-26T10:58:00.001-07:002011-04-26T18:35:32.441-07:00Just what are they selling and what are we buying?A recent trip to the grocery store overwhelmed me with the volume of cheap trinkets celebrating Easter up for purchase.<br /><br />Staring down the rows of cellophane-wrapped plastic baskets brimming with packaged Pez dispensers, bubbles, packaged candies, I had to wonder if the petroleum that went into manufacturing that display was enough to scoot a car across the entire state of Kansas, east to west, and back. I’d wager there is more packaging in those baskets than product. Yep, all that plastic, ink, paper and cardboard to hold a few jelly beans, a small plush toy, marshmallow Peeps and chocolate crème eggs. <br /><br />What does a purple plush Pez dispenser have to do with rebirth or resurrection? What exactly are they selling?<br /><br />I thought about this for some time and believe the only real thing being sold is a stock share or two. Really.<br /><br />Just few decades ago, Easter was a simple wooden basket containing carefully dyed hard-boiled eggs. It was an organic holiday with a family meal, hot-crossed buns and a spring bouquet or corsage.<br /><br />We don’t formally celebrate Easter but I did go to the local confectioners and bought handmade dark chocolate bunnies and a few other seasonal items. I spent $11 total. Better quality product with minimal packaging compared to the stuff in grocery stores.<br /><br />Check that, we don’t formally celebrate Easter but I felt compelled to buy something. Anyone else out there feel that way?<br /><br />Maybe next year, I’ll give the girls seeds for Easter. Seeds are certainly more symbolic. Sugar snap peas straight off the vine are pretty darn sweet. The pea’s we planted are just breaking ground as I write.<br /><br />So before you go for that impulse buy or a purchase out of compulsion, it might be wise to ask yourself, “Just what is really being sold here?”Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-44341751547908607142011-04-16T08:23:00.000-07:002011-04-16T08:36:08.504-07:00No new clothes for a year? It's not that hard!I joined <a href="http://www.thegreatamericanappareldiet.com/">The Great American Apparel Diet</a> over six months ago.<br /><br />What is it?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">“We are a group of women and two men who have decided to go on a diet of sorts. A fast really. We are completely eliminating ‘new apparel’ from our diets for one year. Yes, the next time you see us sporting new tags it will be Sept. 2, 2010.”</span><br /><br />New bra’s and panties are excluded from the diet. No need to get anything in a wad.<br /><br />I don’t remember the last new item of clothing purchased for myself. Really. About three years ago, possibly four, I snagged a copper-colored, faux Persian lamb, swing jacket from the Anthropologie sales rack for $78 – a steal. It could have been that jacket. Not really certain. It was a tough call but if I didn’t purchase it, I would regret it like the jacket on sale in the window of a shop in Martha’s Vineyard in 1992. Hey, I may be cheap, but it does mean I don’t have feelings or sense of style. Had I bought that jacket, it’d still be in my wardrobe. It was timeless. And, it was an honest, good deal.<br /><br />A friend and I were having coffee and talking priorities. She mentioned the cost of airfare for routine family visits and how it’s important in her life. I laughed and noted that her airfare is the cost of some people’s blue jeans. It’s hard to believe, that statement holds truth, even in a recession. But it does.<br /><br />It’s been interesting reading the posts on this <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.thegreatamericanappareldiet.com/">site</a>. The agony some people are truly fighting. Along with the revelations of the newly-found economic freedom and the “was I a fool most my life syndrome” I’ll call <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/09/retail-remorse.html">retail remorse</a>.<br /><br />The Thrifty Chicks support this effort and I will meet the goal without challenge. But I will save the celebration for those who truly changed their lives. And maybe someday I’ll figure out how to post on the site. I’ve access. For now, sitting back and reading is enough.<br /><br />Aside from foundations, what was the last new item of clothing you purchased? How much? Was it truly worth the cost? <br /><br />If you thrift, what was the last thrift item of clothing you purchased? How much? Was is truly worth the cost?Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-66386868849603175552011-04-07T06:58:00.001-07:002011-04-07T06:58:53.456-07:00Is it really about nothing?A comment on the post below has spent me to sit on my soapbox.<br /><br />Sure our culture have seen a few generations of celebrity rebels who fight against standard protocol because they are wealthy or bored enough to do so. These are the people that ride the waves of shock culture. <br /><br />I’m not talking about celebrities who use their influence to invest in humanitarian or political causes. <br /><br />What I’m thinking about is no revelation and perhaps I need to clarity a few points.<br /><br />There are new elements in American culture that - in the hands of a selfish adolescent, which they are by nature - are abused and out of control. Social media and the Net are marketers’ dreams. They can make tailored, direct deposits into the minds of innocent middle and high school kids. Often, because there is little life experience, these children fall for it, hard.<br /><br />Parents are forced into a corner when they must provide the Net for school research. Some schools work in Google Docs. And, not allowing your child to text, have an email or Facebook account literally isolates them from their friends. A parent might refrain from one or two. Be assured, parents must heavily monitor all social media with time and scrutiny. There’s too much exposure and too much Snake Oil.<br /><br />In the '40s my great grandfather worked for the Pulitzer newspapers promoting advertising. After working around the country, he finally settled at The Saint Louis Post Dispatch. I once read the script to one of his talks to a retail group. It was remarkable and clear my grandfather had to sell the notion of advertising as a worthwhile expense. Based on what he penned, it was most evident that he was battling the argument, “Why advertise? I already have enough customers and am fine.” This Zen-like state is rarely found in today’s American business climate. We’ve grown from the desire to meet our needs to just want more.<br /><br />That was some 70 years ago that advertising venues where still needing to convince businesses there was a benefit in advertising.<br /><br />Now? We have PR/marketing/advertising campaigns on steroids and very few of these groups have a social conscious. Mostly, it’s about money. If it wasn’t, how else does one explain push-up bikini tops for eight-year-olds, hair extensions for middle school girls, ten-year-olds in thong underwear, and gratuitous cleavage in 7th grade? Yes, children wearing bras that blatantly claim to enlarge the appearance of their budding little chests by three times.<br /><br />These days? There are more Americans bucking trends because they are following a marketed campaign with no point but to make money. So I ask, are they really bucking a trend or are just falling in with the masses? Do they even know what they’re attempting to buck?<br /><br />I don’t think it’s anything about individual expression. The people I see in thrift stores, generally have more taste and sense of style than those I see in the mall. <br /><br />Lady Gaga? She will be replaced by something more shocking than herself. And that person/thing will urge kids to show more skin and drive them further away from the basics of cultural conventions and context.<br /><br />It’s sad to think that common courtesy and context is losing out to money.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-56161316870878437032011-03-31T12:08:00.000-07:002011-04-03T08:04:21.207-07:00Maybe there’s hope for our girlsA friend of a friend of a friend told me the BP section of Nordstrom is a good place to take a teen.<br /><br />As written in last November's <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/11/from-gluteal-cleavage-to-breast.html">From gluteal cleavage to breat cleavage. Oh joy!</a>, I’ve been at odds with the fashion industry’s approach to dressing young girls. Word up to all teen girls in America: we know you have boobs and butts – you don’t need to prove it by showing them off! Cleavage in middle school? Come on!<br /><br />Petit Poe knows the value in thrift and is not embarrassed to say she wears it. Yet, there is this part of her, mostly influenced by friends, that thinks she’s supposed to go to the mall and buy new clothes. Problem is, the stores that cater to these girls are just plain tacky and are teaching our girls to show the junk in the trunk whenever they wish. These stores preach nothing but buy little tiny t-shirts for a lot of money.<br /><br />The American youth is becoming more and more ignorant of context and few in the fashion industry are considering it. I’ve seen kids in sagging shorts and flip flops going to interviews in November. Wow. That’s a great way to make a first impression.<br /><br />Standing on my soapbox I announce that many Americans are losing the notion of context. Let’s take Lady Gaga. If she wants to kick off her concert being carried on stage in a plastic pod, so be it. But, when she attends the Grammy’s there appears to be a complete lack of understand the evening is NOT about her. Making a spectacle out of one’s self at a night that honors many, is selfish, ignorant and rude. It’s kind of like showing up to your friend’s wedding in your own wedding gown. Now, I’m stepping down from my soapbox.<br /><br />I grabbed Poe’s hand, told her we are going to Nordstrom and Nordstrom only. Initially, she rolled her eyes but once in the BP section things changed. Compared to thrift the prices are crazy but compared to other chain retailers, Nordstrom BP is not out of line and delivers a higher quality product. For the first time in two years Poe bought a dress that we both approved! Here’s the real kicker – the entire event took about a half hour! If you’re a mother to a teen, you’re probably thinking I’m in denial. What I wrote really happened! Really!<br /><br />Now we visit BP. There are a few items that push my limits, but the larger teaches girls respectable style.<br /><br />How does this relate to thrift? Easy, Poe buys one item she likes at BP. Then when at the thrift, she has some understanding of current fashion that has taste and finds comparable items.<br /><br />If you have a teen daughter, take her to Nordstrom BP. It’s tasteful and not overwhelming. I loathe Forever 21. That store is like walking into someone’s dirty closet. I’ve seen young girls buying dresses made for a night at the club. Problem is they’re about seven years away from being able to step foot in a club. What’s the rush?<br /><br />The club scene? I stuck with the black ballet top, men's Levi's 501, silver-hooped earrings and black boots. Been there, done that. Probably paid out enough in cover charges and cab fares to put as down payment for a house. I'm not naive and would hate to see how women are dressing on the club scene. Shiver.<br /><br />Oh, I heard the news day oh boy...<a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://chicagobreakingbusiness.com/2011/03/abercrombie-retreats-on-push-up-bikini-for-young-girls.html">Abercrombie & Fitch attempted to market push-up bikini tops to eight year olds</a> for this season. Thank you <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://saverqueen.com/">Saver Queen</a> for highlighting this. Wow, and I thought nothing could top the nine-year-old I know of who stuffs her half camisole top with tissue paper!Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-18632072989825659532011-02-21T08:08:00.000-08:002011-03-10T06:29:32.980-08:00I saved $1,000 in two purchasesPetite Poe and Little Pie’s birthdays makes for our March Madness. What to get Little Pie? I’ve been looking for months. I’ve already scouted out her <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2011/02/party-favors-from-thrift-get-out.html">party favors</a>.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhL46lB-wt80nkS16kypkE03XvaQhZSoL-x7Z5bzdoJZhl3mA4DkOxWJB-Pw2-cLLnVvSOg2wcSiy2-_7LsiFh15ikoIOWbdA5CFv8Bzf3ViIY28lWWZ5x9osesYSBy5VITD7iLXQi9C6tF/s1600/Electrathethriiftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 360px; height: 233px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhL46lB-wt80nkS16kypkE03XvaQhZSoL-x7Z5bzdoJZhl3mA4DkOxWJB-Pw2-cLLnVvSOg2wcSiy2-_7LsiFh15ikoIOWbdA5CFv8Bzf3ViIY28lWWZ5x9osesYSBy5VITD7iLXQi9C6tF/s400/Electrathethriiftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576181113257540690" border="0" /></a>The answer finally arrived in the window of the Archer Goodwill this Friday. A blue Electra 24” Townie kids step through bicycle. Pie is too big for her old bicycle (we reclaimed it from the alley as did my Schwinn red cruiser). This Electra is specifically designed to grow with the rider so we need not purchase a transitional bike.<br /><br />Electra is the current crème de la crème of new cruisers, which have been popular in Denver for years. So popular, citizens can rent shiny red cruisers at sites all over town. Just slip a few dollars into the machine and voila, a cruiser complete with basket is yours for the time paid for.<br /><br />Given it’s a holiday weekend, Mr. Golightly and I have not had the opportunity to photograph the bike for there are little eyes about the house that would discover us. It’s going to be a tough month of not spilling the beans.<br /><br />When I find something like this, I cannot wait to give it. I think this might require the use of duct tape over my mouth, or as Pie used to say, “duck tape”. Pie loves duct tape and she gets it honest from her great grandfather, The Big Messer we call him. He, like so many WWII veterans, has a life long love of the invention that could fix nearly anything, or at least hold it together until it could be fixed properly. One super-hero day at school Pie went as Duct Tape Girl.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiy0ihH9YjhaYr9QYKdGa-O7GU-AjtoIfMtf4QS68wMFvOGeutxMy1b43JmSupGCWCetbp4FwPDtjOQKw5iPD2Uqs3_a5AFWmOSMSOukcnEfYN1QzT5ZPVjQ0V1KZjFg2fyVgjY9mCGcXcd/s1600/dtgirlthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiy0ihH9YjhaYr9QYKdGa-O7GU-AjtoIfMtf4QS68wMFvOGeutxMy1b43JmSupGCWCetbp4FwPDtjOQKw5iPD2Uqs3_a5AFWmOSMSOukcnEfYN1QzT5ZPVjQ0V1KZjFg2fyVgjY9mCGcXcd/s400/dtgirlthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576180534044315954" border="0" /></a>But I ramble. We purchased this bike in excellent condition; the rubber on the kickstand shows little sign of use at all. Not a spot of rust. This bike has over $100 of added components including a removable basket.<br /><br />It retails $480 at our local REI (without components). We paid $170 for it. Family members are chipping in and Little Pie will be so delighted to ride a slick bicycle that fits her. Petite Po has Electra envy though she has no reason to complain for she has a beauty of a Trek cruiser with white wall tires and blue fenders with two over-the back tire baskets acquired from Craig’s List for $140.<br /><br />I was on the cell phone with Mr. Golightly, discussing the possible purchase of the bicycle when the guys from the stock room placed another treasure just two feet away. A beige microfiber swivel rocker from Room & Board, the fabric hardly worn, not a rip, stain or imperfection now sat in the window for $40. How long do you think the sale sticker remained on that chair? Generally, I’m very polite in thrift stores, but when it comes to high-end items for pennies on the dollar, I am a Tasmanian Devil, I’ll either beat you to it or scare you away from it.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtTAylltDdpnrb0m0EwH4tam8flcu0EOaIfrnX73lT2FrSh-X7Fke4wFaLW9o276fQL391dnxvaTpIm54vWVsmksZgq3DlE09HnPiZLYpS0GfV5ePMjyF5yC93Cso691SXoPLKbn8GfqUI/s1600/room%2526boardchairthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 216px; height: 166px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtTAylltDdpnrb0m0EwH4tam8flcu0EOaIfrnX73lT2FrSh-X7Fke4wFaLW9o276fQL391dnxvaTpIm54vWVsmksZgq3DlE09HnPiZLYpS0GfV5ePMjyF5yC93Cso691SXoPLKbn8GfqUI/s400/room%2526boardchairthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576182125644657426" border="0" /></a>Everything in this photograph is either estate sale or thrift. The lamp for $6, pillows $6 total, rug for $30 and round mirror for $8 were purchased thrift. The antique knitting cabinet and dresser from an estate sale for a total of $120. I refinished both. [We're working on a better photo but this small version will do for now.]<br /><br />This chair was EXACTLY what I’ve been looking for our sitting room. When we came home, Mr. Golightly looked up the chair that is currently listed on The Room & Board site for $700. Wow.<br /><br />Like many Americans, we are economically stressed and are compelled to discuss any large purchase, generally anything over $75. But, even in better times we discussed large purchases.<br /><br />The biggest purchase made without mutual consult was our 100-year-old, quarter-sawn oak, up right grand piano for $600 at a neighbor’s estate sale. I couldn’t call Mr. Golightly because, after I heard the price, I involuntarily exhaled, “I’ll take it!” and fainted. Okay, I didn’t really faint but I did need to grasp hold of the piano to steady myself. I figured the price at least five grand and just asked out of curiosity. At first, Mr. Golightly was a bit miffed but after walking a block down to see it, he exclaimed, “Honey, you told me you purchased a piano! You didn’t tell me you purchased an institution!” We’d been wanting a piano for about a year.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix5eiNqDQIEtGZdwrDb5o84f6PJsJ3aaA3dgTXw3b4fIG1cwp0izap_vTafLuu4iNLfhczxaHlojoAhnpFhVdZ6_Dice6pVMcxn2F_Y9Osz1juyHV9QSCsgakTYiRWyP-CesX9yrNnfHiZ/s1600/pianothethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 355px; height: 310px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix5eiNqDQIEtGZdwrDb5o84f6PJsJ3aaA3dgTXw3b4fIG1cwp0izap_vTafLuu4iNLfhczxaHlojoAhnpFhVdZ6_Dice6pVMcxn2F_Y9Osz1juyHV9QSCsgakTYiRWyP-CesX9yrNnfHiZ/s400/pianothethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576179083110396578" border="0" /></a>We named our piano Sarah, after it's previous owner. We know it's entire history. One hundred years ago, the grandparents of Sarah's husband boarded a train to The Packard Piano Company in Fort Wayne, IN to select this piano which was one of five on the show room floor. They brought the piano back to Denver and Sarah's husband grew up playing it. During it's 100 years of life, it's been moved twice. It has a rich, robust sound that has come to be a blessing and a curse. When someone sits down to play, the entire house hears a concert ready or not.<br /><br />Does your family mutually make decisions on high-end purchases? What price point? Have you always done this or have current times made for dialog?Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-77305680110962650522011-02-17T17:19:00.001-08:002011-02-18T06:24:27.135-08:00A real peach of a woman from Georgia<div style="text-align: center;"> </div>Every once in a while a little gem lands in my in box that I like to share. This note came from an attorney in Georgia. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Though I love that s</span><span style="font-weight: bold;">he’s participating in the thrift market, the thing that touches me most is that she uses the money she saves from thrift to help her justify more pro-bono work! </span>Becky, as far as I’m concerned, we need more people like you. Her recent thrift scores are mixed in with the copy. Godspeed Becky!<br /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrM7tuIQ0D-o6IulzjQYNvJL97G_JDdYOmFMgle_2Bx5wS03qPTyIQFqrP9gwY4bkTX8SI0pBIm5rir690DCDwkcnJP8EjEPdj85rGak7lVpaeKeI6fq0Icy6P5Ssnv1DVfvTplYJosE8t/s1600/becky1thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrM7tuIQ0D-o6IulzjQYNvJL97G_JDdYOmFMgle_2Bx5wS03qPTyIQFqrP9gwY4bkTX8SI0pBIm5rir690DCDwkcnJP8EjEPdj85rGak7lVpaeKeI6fq0Icy6P5Ssnv1DVfvTplYJosE8t/s400/becky1thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574833305091569714" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic;">(Editor's Note: OMG how darling!)</span><br /></div><br />Hi Shopping Golightly!<br /><br />Thought you’d like to hear about my recent success.<br /><br />I went to a trunk show at a friend’s house a few days ago and was tempted to buy a very cute but very EXPENSIVE jacket.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOYof63r9e-LeagDwx24X6APSGU3BIs4zdir5IOE1QOJuT5uYQhaL1Cktju2yTJGHsunwfqB8Up4l25jd99oYUOGhEXXLp6JjziDOWLBe6w36mitvgad-WoQZ8Y9WJviXX6NPIH3CMb7jk/s1600/becky3thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOYof63r9e-LeagDwx24X6APSGU3BIs4zdir5IOE1QOJuT5uYQhaL1Cktju2yTJGHsunwfqB8Up4l25jd99oYUOGhEXXLp6JjziDOWLBe6w36mitvgad-WoQZ8Y9WJviXX6NPIH3CMb7jk/s400/becky3thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574834893873267634" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic;">(Editor's Note: I love zipper pull jackets! They've an uncluttered, crisp look.)</span><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>When I go to trunk shows, I feel a compulsion to buy items to support the hostess plus a daunting peer pressure to jump on the spending bandwagon!<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMxYS4rZP4TOVMM5uDJ9g5Ym-vtgdoN2-Gl0VFuzTpwxvYe_v4XY1dyfVG3QAeLWxHUC5xAIQD0bOegrYw01c4io_xSqcCuokUE8mXStD4haxKJO6tapwk68Um2hRhm9-UexJ4jyu51_Ps/s1600/becky2thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMxYS4rZP4TOVMM5uDJ9g5Ym-vtgdoN2-Gl0VFuzTpwxvYe_v4XY1dyfVG3QAeLWxHUC5xAIQD0bOegrYw01c4io_xSqcCuokUE8mXStD4haxKJO6tapwk68Um2hRhm9-UexJ4jyu51_Ps/s400/becky2thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574835796558493058" border="0" /></a></div>The temptation? A darling cropped yellow gingham jacket. It looked quite retro.<br /><br />But wait a second! It reminded me of many of the jackets I’ve spied at Goodwill during previous perusals.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfvRxjxbgb5my7CfuAEi4fhXZWMCn8rLG4xuaLb-ErHrUBiyXAzbZqkPkgGMwKt6ERMgxpiG6vKdVB9WGGCLYDugl3kjM8jnzyRSRCA0ZSGk4f8ao7UYhePCWK0FwDbgTLeFmaCejtoTm_/s1600/becky5thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfvRxjxbgb5my7CfuAEi4fhXZWMCn8rLG4xuaLb-ErHrUBiyXAzbZqkPkgGMwKt6ERMgxpiG6vKdVB9WGGCLYDugl3kjM8jnzyRSRCA0ZSGk4f8ao7UYhePCWK0FwDbgTLeFmaCejtoTm_/s400/becky5thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574834266075665410" border="0" /></a>So, THIS TIME instead of pulling out my credit card at the trunk show, I went to Goodwill afterwards to see what was hanging on the racks.<br /><br />I walked out with FIVE nice jackets for just $24.00, less than $5.00 each. WOW! My five jackets were a small fraction of the cost of the jacket that started this at the trunk show.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7s7YwdhRf7N313bsKM0eZSSqqUO6d4R7U1W0uQ9_fBumyaoWDvNBLSB4hrP9V5mfetaS1hnDnQrGog1548kcxWjed9o75D0xOltIHa2YjBBjh2daF-KoowJW4UrJKXYE6GApb35IVw1hU/s1600/becky4thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7s7YwdhRf7N313bsKM0eZSSqqUO6d4R7U1W0uQ9_fBumyaoWDvNBLSB4hrP9V5mfetaS1hnDnQrGog1548kcxWjed9o75D0xOltIHa2YjBBjh2daF-KoowJW4UrJKXYE6GApb35IVw1hU/s400/becky4thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574833759562583298" border="0" /></a>They are perfect for work. Add a camisole from and scarf from my collection, and I am prepared to meet clients. They will never know what I paid for my look!<br /><br />Keeping my “overhead” in line allows me to do more pro-bono work and not feel guilty. It’s a win win!<br /><br />Thanks for making the reuse market an exciting and rewarding treasure hunt where you can come home with a SPLENDID bargain not a guilt trip!<br /><br />Becky<br />Alpharetta, GAShopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-9332439742709956592011-02-14T15:13:00.000-08:002011-02-15T16:11:20.897-08:00Sticker shock in a bookstore?Thought I’d surprise Mr. Golightly this Valentine’s Day with the latest selection for his Man Book Group. This book was wait-listed at the library. He’d probably would not have had a copy in hand before the next meeting.<br /><br />I went to the bookstore. It’s been awhile, though I used to practically live at The Tattered Cover, Denver’s largest independent bookstore. Then they moved.<br /><br />I thought there was an error when the clerk said “That will be $17.95”.<br /><br />I only purchased one paperback. That’s the price of hardback.<br /><br />So I learned that, during my hiatus from the bookstore, they’ve seriously jacked up prices. $15.95 for a paperback, $28 buys a hardback!<br /><br />Two feelings hit me at once: 1) I felt crotchety, whining about the current price of books; 2) I felt Jedi smart for buying best-sellers a la thrift, not paying full price for years. With the amount my family reads, I've possibly saved over a thousand dollars.<br /><br />Mr. Golightly was happy to have his book but the price hike shocked him too, which made me feel less crotchety and even smarter.<br /><br />Why? Because we’re accustomed to thrift store prices, $2 for a hardback, $1 for paperback and often less.<br /><br />For more testimony on savings, here’s what I gave my family for Valentine’s Day.<br /><br />Petite Poet received this darling cardigan. It was $5. She looks like a rose when she wears it.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHA0VLb4YmhAmB8K6Xikw4DhEbF6nTF38tX21jjHTjekScq_-vo27EudQL9vdIs17T1RlH3rillSS1t0yfQo26wVySKg0yCrXJM5Reu8Qix7FRb_TszPlt4UYeNAHL0HmsnMK4u3P9cSq_/s1600/alfaniredsweater-thethriftychicks.blogspot.com1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 383px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHA0VLb4YmhAmB8K6Xikw4DhEbF6nTF38tX21jjHTjekScq_-vo27EudQL9vdIs17T1RlH3rillSS1t0yfQo26wVySKg0yCrXJM5Reu8Qix7FRb_TszPlt4UYeNAHL0HmsnMK4u3P9cSq_/s400/alfaniredsweater-thethriftychicks.blogspot.com1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573737382563334482" border="0" /></a>Little Pie now has this darling hand hooked wool rug from Orvis in her room. Take a minute to look at it. It took me awhile to see. It’s a circle of cats drinking from a saucer of milk. At three times my <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/01/are-you-familiar-with-thrift-effect-if.html">Flinch Point</a>, I though it worth it. Little Pie loves cats. We have three. We’re not against dogs but I refuse to allow any more animals that require clean up in this house. I can barely keep up as is.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghkorbrMti289QEtFwYoQrVrhFAJRHf2_bRykQvDzsW_uXb_b2TikJgh2Jx-V5J5GzbANWAZtt2rEu7syzTFdYoRF7huLqew6y7gEGe1ZiBaRuXJHF37PfVt10fqygEysoeqI6mFBumqUE/s1600/jmt-ca620-3761-catrug-thethriftychicks.blogspot1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 362px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghkorbrMti289QEtFwYoQrVrhFAJRHf2_bRykQvDzsW_uXb_b2TikJgh2Jx-V5J5GzbANWAZtt2rEu7syzTFdYoRF7huLqew6y7gEGe1ZiBaRuXJHF37PfVt10fqygEysoeqI6mFBumqUE/s400/jmt-ca620-3761-catrug-thethriftychicks.blogspot1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573740244559608082" border="0" /></a>Mr. Golightly received this pristine vintage mohair blanket from Scotland by Andrew Stewart for our sitting room. It was $5 and had just been dry-cleaned. We read a lot and find a nice blanket makes for good company.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyJxT0gutsRWT0ewp8GZ5j25Bqmc6XhKizU_FccTGlkdDQth0t0w6T3TPuh6p-XNUcxev54QcUkAoayw4u-iATb_FtDvjewBBYQnoAYkq-LpPiUn-mywCcK7LGrGscdwkix9FobkzUjS24/s1600/mohair-thethriftychicks.blogspot2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 318px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyJxT0gutsRWT0ewp8GZ5j25Bqmc6XhKizU_FccTGlkdDQth0t0w6T3TPuh6p-XNUcxev54QcUkAoayw4u-iATb_FtDvjewBBYQnoAYkq-LpPiUn-mywCcK7LGrGscdwkix9FobkzUjS24/s400/mohair-thethriftychicks.blogspot2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573735718598380274" border="0" /></a> The last is a bit of a joke. Mr. Golightly loves odd containers. I found this Valentine-like container for $2 and stuffed it with Biore pore strips. We secretly play spa. If you Biore, I know you relate. If you have not, you need to try it.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAyjRT-Ybw5uQ7a4kuMy3f6ItcrRN7y6keNCvj1obEz1b2vXcQKzF-Dv73Ehfx9sC94YXPVl4jwb6yAhMak_ENYbBRu4e3jXAAp6cjqX-hcl4rjQ54crJuXkpYxpofJ-39TcKgNIGT6-QC/s1600/jmt-ca620-3748-songfood-thethriftychicks.blogspot2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 325px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAyjRT-Ybw5uQ7a4kuMy3f6ItcrRN7y6keNCvj1obEz1b2vXcQKzF-Dv73Ehfx9sC94YXPVl4jwb6yAhMak_ENYbBRu4e3jXAAp6cjqX-hcl4rjQ54crJuXkpYxpofJ-39TcKgNIGT6-QC/s400/jmt-ca620-3748-songfood-thethriftychicks.blogspot2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573734215689231970" border="0" /></a>It's going to take some time for me to grieve about the old prices of books. I don’t have sticker shock in clothing and home stores. I just never thought I’d experience this shock in a bookstore.<br /><br />At least our facial pores will come clean tonight. (I really didn't want to share this secret, but Mr. Golightly wanted the world to know this to possibly free a few clogged pores with Biore. I guess he's set on cleaning the world, one facial pore at a time - his secret superhero power.) I apologize for the cheekiness and candor. My husband made me do it, because it's Valentine's Day.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-63466536567985055762011-02-06T14:43:00.000-08:002011-02-07T11:16:24.435-08:00Party favors from thrift? Get out!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdE89iIWr-9WtmLobVG5HEuBz9YFj9eOK6GsB9-bto52DKXeUb4BxshWhlIG2W7anNVhjLs34UcjhbSS80mIiZBYIZWVKPbcYXeNQlVkLIfct-XJMtuAJmWos-L8GKFla9MRtJ0xkvW40z/s1600/teacups%2540thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 285px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdE89iIWr-9WtmLobVG5HEuBz9YFj9eOK6GsB9-bto52DKXeUb4BxshWhlIG2W7anNVhjLs34UcjhbSS80mIiZBYIZWVKPbcYXeNQlVkLIfct-XJMtuAJmWos-L8GKFla9MRtJ0xkvW40z/s400/teacups%2540thethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570712796059970914" border="0" /></a>Many of today's birthday parties for children seem to be on steroids. Some parties have 20 children in attendance for expensive activities like horse back riding or painting your own pottery. Ugh, we cannot afford that, but that doesn't mean our parties must be a boring flop.<br /><br />I like to keep parties at home and follow the basic rule of inviting one more child than the age of the child until they are 10. For the Golightlys, March Madness translates to birthdays upon birthdays. (June must be a hot conception month.)<br /><br />Little Pie turns ten this year and we will be serving a high tea for ten of her friends. I've been preparing for a year. The above assortment of tea cups will serve as party favors. I've been scanning thrift stores for months to pick just the right cup at the right price. This has been a lesson in patience and since I have the party favors set, all I really need to do is prepare the table. I acquired each teacup and saucer for around $2. Each find gave me a pleasant feeling of a small accomplishment; something we could all use these days. And, I brought each new cup and saucer home for Little Pie to see which offered her satisfaction and anticipation.<br /><br />A funny thing happened near the end of my acquisition. I discovered one of the tea cups was quite valuable. (Guess now and I'll let you know at the end of the post.)<br /><br />As noted in the former post, <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2011/02/new-age-thrift.html">A place of possibilities</a>, if one <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/04/dump-that-retail-mind.html">Dumps their retail mindset</a>, the thrift store becomes a place of many unimagined opportunities.<br /><br />If you have children or enjoy entertaining, consider the thrift store a resource. The items found there will be more fun than paper horns and tiny bubble blowers that discount retailers sell. In many cases, they'll be less expensive too and won't be so quick to become landfill fodder. <span style="font-weight: bold;">To me, favors bought at</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> party stores/discount retailers scream, "I'm not worth keeping!" Is that really what you want to give a guest?</span><br /><br />Not only can you find the favors at thrift but you can lay a beautiful full place-setting (china, glasses, and silver-plate flatware) for under $5 from the thrift store. This is one incredible place for those who love to <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/11/thrift-store-conventions-entertain-461.html">entertain</a>.<br /><br />Follows are a few easy ideas for party favors al a thrift. To be successful, plan ahead with patience. I promise it will take a stressful situation and make it less stressful. And, the chances that guests will actually<span style="font-style: italic;"> value </span>their favors skyrockets.<br /><br />Sometimes we find things we never imagined, like these tiny clay tea pots, $3 bought all. These pots were in Little Pie's holiday stocking but easily could have been darling party favors.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK4-ZCRXOaSfMOwUOOf4Vg_wE3TjBo9htLDtsWKIQfU6hIyVYuVJ4JGqcJeP0MEFN1ZqjbGPbMdDZEHVG3kqASV_zPaAU74BPnxAuSbYPSyAKk-9AjHwObtEbK49ZavlYtZQY82Kke8Njr/s1600/miniteapotsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK4-ZCRXOaSfMOwUOOf4Vg_wE3TjBo9htLDtsWKIQfU6hIyVYuVJ4JGqcJeP0MEFN1ZqjbGPbMdDZEHVG3kqASV_zPaAU74BPnxAuSbYPSyAKk-9AjHwObtEbK49ZavlYtZQY82Kke8Njr/s400/miniteapotsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570717273835084002" border="0" /></a>All these marbles were found thrift for about $8. How about a cultural renewal on playing marbles? I do a lot of gardening about our 111-year-old home. When building out a new bed, I usually find old change like a buffalo nickel buried in the soil. I've also found several marbles.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgpzfPzWKBEE9jN-HSHCFdBjInH-dcuV6vxoKcxpoQMWrbKdfBFKlqNgUbGRg39ljwGL96sHIE6DasHP6MqIyzjHwmmUurODmb-nlnaiVbPThFQrP7JYiYNfGH6OVXH8aOy9PLNqHFpO9i/s1600/marblesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 330px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgpzfPzWKBEE9jN-HSHCFdBjInH-dcuV6vxoKcxpoQMWrbKdfBFKlqNgUbGRg39ljwGL96sHIE6DasHP6MqIyzjHwmmUurODmb-nlnaiVbPThFQrP7JYiYNfGH6OVXH8aOy9PLNqHFpO9i/s400/marblesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570718232734914738" border="0" /></a>Empty nesting dolls are easily found at thrift stores from 50 cents to a dollar. They're darling and could hold candy as a favor.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihK8kPPG7BaaVXVLZSXrtwwFKSLDNrsD62LbRnqaCoBKErnp71k5QwY492aJk1tjlrDZBPXf_rZR22nWmEIn0fBMCIimpRtUQQ-SSA2CVaTO2VvFPfSngcveXLXOPZsJ9XlwgfUbzzHts4/s1600/dollsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 233px; height: 350px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihK8kPPG7BaaVXVLZSXrtwwFKSLDNrsD62LbRnqaCoBKErnp71k5QwY492aJk1tjlrDZBPXf_rZR22nWmEIn0fBMCIimpRtUQQ-SSA2CVaTO2VvFPfSngcveXLXOPZsJ9XlwgfUbzzHts4/s400/dollsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570716621883215410" border="0" /></a>Paper parasols are another easy score in thrift stores. They run from $2-$4 each. Always check them to ensure they are not torn; there's about a 60% chance they're not. What little girl does not love a parasol?<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibGAqOPRUnJcP15o1RHA-hwHsJHy2QrYDAZPvytBsLo5aP3qNjRErOAPgRUvlMpULSMR3zV2rtNxT1GvrLuWz_BWRrVaRgy7lqqW6WMxWJhkcNnEKwy27MfJrDoVkzH_fhl9IENCXbUZ08/s1600/parasolsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 298px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibGAqOPRUnJcP15o1RHA-hwHsJHy2QrYDAZPvytBsLo5aP3qNjRErOAPgRUvlMpULSMR3zV2rtNxT1GvrLuWz_BWRrVaRgy7lqqW6WMxWJhkcNnEKwy27MfJrDoVkzH_fhl9IENCXbUZ08/s400/parasolsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570720152301812418" border="0" /></a>Even small teapots can be gathered.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc7cOHRt-dcP6uGL-g-_FtcmFur4Tt1uPCMPNfAeoXFEl71cwZugVrdY9xcqqEjk4XPAUSsiNKCiEAXtHYiP63Y-YKff-rW8KCa27wwenqgIUibLuMfMijruXD_1GsATrZq1yhi4p9QOcl/s1600/teapotsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 306px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc7cOHRt-dcP6uGL-g-_FtcmFur4Tt1uPCMPNfAeoXFEl71cwZugVrdY9xcqqEjk4XPAUSsiNKCiEAXtHYiP63Y-YKff-rW8KCa27wwenqgIUibLuMfMijruXD_1GsATrZq1yhi4p9QOcl/s400/teapotsthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570723720227643650" border="0" /></a><br />I purchased five pounds of old crayons thrift for $2. Little Pie and I recycled those old crayons into what we call pastel pies. We made over 250 pastel pies - that's enough favors for a classroom party!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihh1tFAaF6T-WKNHh588jCgJu3_2ToFoBmmcoVEyQ7acENkrVOE04-FrUL6glvmpj5SiSPqOZNSJDblKOyulH4l567y03Or9vJBRIRfOCKubVO0m-PbwQms2M54tT0dBfYdv55t2hIThw2/s1600/crayons4tthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 351px; height: 142px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihh1tFAaF6T-WKNHh588jCgJu3_2ToFoBmmcoVEyQ7acENkrVOE04-FrUL6glvmpj5SiSPqOZNSJDblKOyulH4l567y03Or9vJBRIRfOCKubVO0m-PbwQms2M54tT0dBfYdv55t2hIThw2/s400/crayons4tthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570714841689058130" border="0" /></a>They're really quite lovely and - if you wish - you can name your own colors.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_wb6pN-FgE7Xr8h4NwrBH7HaSf6_w_wk0SFRv4DphKwOoZ1mjAqTHqeo0i97ucf6AbDoxgrrofDiEe80w4zVo10xMW5LpoYcdCBGCNpomtWBE751f3u4FEbY9i4ft3XxGpH_Yua4eamNV/s1600/pastelpiesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 287px; height: 275px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_wb6pN-FgE7Xr8h4NwrBH7HaSf6_w_wk0SFRv4DphKwOoZ1mjAqTHqeo0i97ucf6AbDoxgrrofDiEe80w4zVo10xMW5LpoYcdCBGCNpomtWBE751f3u4FEbY9i4ft3XxGpH_Yua4eamNV/s400/pastelpiesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570715333739014962" border="0" /></a>Visit our sister blog, <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://mommiegolightly.blogspot.com/">Mommy Golightly</a> to learn how to make Little Pie's pastel pies.<br /><br />Need more ideas? How about silk scarves, jewelry, collectible teaspoons, aprons, handkerchiefs? Or, you could host a party to make <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2011/01/crown-to-guide-us.html">personal crowns</a> from thrifted supplies. A few of my friends have handed out cash and cut kids lose in a thrift store. Believe it or not, teens especially love that one and usually have a fashion show afterward to see who landed the coolest score.<br /><br />It doesn't end with party favors. Paper plates, napkins, paper lanterns, place-cards and invitations are easy thrift finds. I purchased Little Pie's invitations about six months ago, an unopened box of printable pink cards from Papyrus for about $2.<br /><br />Try some patience and plan ahead. We all need practice on patience these days. Be open to possibilities and shop thrift. Thrift is not standard retail, think <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Portobello_Road">Portobello Road</a> or a Parisian flea market with items unexpected. For example, I saw an antique rapier in the case of my neighbor thrift just this Saturday. I've seen so many exotic things, it's hard to remember them all.<br /><br />As for the pastel pies, Piper and I noted something interesting in a few of them. What do you see in each pastel pie below?<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjktnzJMMXn58wAtB9VE0t3ywY6qlls9riYI0mDcQlXp5sa6Op4mlvriKnWlvFdzqayQsiClPs6Pfo5IYfnu6Qk90g9Oongnx9Md4fgsV8kXC2-jLYeov0NcdIl81cgyLN6BkThcS-Ffo_k/s1600/threecraypiesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 198px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjktnzJMMXn58wAtB9VE0t3ywY6qlls9riYI0mDcQlXp5sa6Op4mlvriKnWlvFdzqayQsiClPs6Pfo5IYfnu6Qk90g9Oongnx9Md4fgsV8kXC2-jLYeov0NcdIl81cgyLN6BkThcS-Ffo_k/s400/threecraypiesthethriftychicks%2540blogspot.com" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5571003091081326450" border="0" /></a>Little Pie and I see a woman with a papoose on her back on the left. We see a child's face in the lower left of the middle pastel pie. A squirrel appeared to us on the right pastel pie.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Post Script: The teacup on the right with the violets </span><span style="font-style: italic;">was produced by James Kent, Ltd. pattern 5018. It's probably worth about 2,500%</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> what I paid for it.</span>Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com29tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-36774614684859738972011-02-05T07:13:00.000-08:002011-02-06T07:52:43.882-08:00A place of possibilitiesIt’s Saturday morning. The house is quiet and I have coffee. I woke to NPR’s Weekend Edition. I’ve a brain crush on <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scott_Simon">Scott Simon</a>, his commentaries and his laugh. I miss his weekly dialogs with <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Schorr">Daniel Schorr</a>. Funny, anytime Mr. Golightly has an author who’s been interviewed by Scott Simon sign a book, he has the author write a postscript, “P. S. Your husband’s better looking than Scott Simon”. This happens even if the interview was not done in person in the NPR studio in DC.<br /><br />I think I’ll hit the neighborhood Goodwill when it opens. Sometimes I wish I lived near my friend <a href="http://apronthriftgirl.typepad.com/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Apron Thrift Girl</span></a> so that Saturdays would be filled with estate and yard sales in Sonoma. I need a friend to jump about the county in a car. Truth is, I don’t like cars and didn’t own one until I married Mr. Golightly at 27. A car is a heavy thing to carry around and hell to park when in the city. Then, I was in the accident in 2003, which makes me dislike cars even more.<br /><br />A quick aside, I wrote a college thesis on estate sales for a sociology major but rarely go to them. My other major was Biology. It was a small liberal arts college and there were but a few biology majors. We were a tight group, hanging out in lab till midnight with a few beers iced down in the lab sink. Hey, it was college! My peers went on to be doctors and one veterinarian. I didn’t have the guts for medical school. I studied biology out of ultimate fascination; completely awestruck.<br /><br />Denver’s not a hot spot for year-round yard sales and given that I do not like driving much I stick to thrift.<br /><br />My family went to the mountains a few weeks back and I bought a magazine to read. It was the January edition of O, one arranged around channeling creativity. This edition offered a<a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.oprah.com/omagazine_archive.html?search_text=The+unquiz&search_month=&search_year="> "Five-Step Un -Quiz" </a>to readers, asking for submissions. One un-quiz step was to think about things you need in life and designate a place to that contemplate that need. They asked readers to make a simple sign for that spot.<br /><blockquote style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size:130%;">We all need possibility. I’m going to ask the manager at our neighborhood thrift if I can place a sign in the store that says, “This is a place of possibilities”.</span></blockquote>If you can <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/04/dump-that-retail-mind.html">dump the retail mindset</a>, the thrift store truly is a place of possibilities, many within immediate grasp. Next time you visit, take a deep breath at the door and prepare to open the mind. Reflect, visualize a future, have hope. Basically learn to meditate in the thrift store and the possibilities will present themselves.<br /><br />Godspeed in your journey to your place of possibility.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9051113577658386956.post-76999154813875030412011-01-31T08:25:00.000-08:002011-02-08T06:10:09.478-08:00The post-holiday thrift store bootySaturday I found this darling set of matryoshka dolls for $1. Normally, I’d save items like this for Little Pie’s holiday stocking but couldn't wait and gave it now to join her collection. A wasabi pea sits next to the smallest doll for a little perspective. The Pitney Bowes postal scale, in the background, was $6. I love old scales. Little Pie likes to play with them. When you have a scale, you’d be surprised by how often it comes in handy.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_UFIMYNTinI-ecM0s9TxCwGDYll-_WW5ka8KgNe-xYznmA7u7mOpLIrmwJ6edVeM08YhwmpyFAJylJJ49p4pmwnyxinEH3kzF73-p1JzUHOlAiOFsvzr8lE6GXVzdIxvQYMYnxRtAKuRE/s1600/nestingdollsthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 284px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_UFIMYNTinI-ecM0s9TxCwGDYll-_WW5ka8KgNe-xYznmA7u7mOpLIrmwJ6edVeM08YhwmpyFAJylJJ49p4pmwnyxinEH3kzF73-p1JzUHOlAiOFsvzr8lE6GXVzdIxvQYMYnxRtAKuRE/s400/nestingdollsthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568397339466204786" border="0" /></a>I ran my trap on eve of the new year. Yeah, imagine that. I ran my trap and boasted that January is an awesome month in thrift stores and perhaps people should consider doing their 2011 holidays shopping there and now; 11 months in advance.<br /><br />I dared people to try the <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/12/2011-holidays-on-1-day-start-now.html">“2011 Holidays for </a><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/12/2011-holidays-on-1-day-start-now.html">a dollar a day”</a>. $365 for the holidays? To many of readers this is cake. But to some it sounds wrong. Depends how you look at it.<br /><br />If this is a new idea read on. If not, read on anyway, laugh and shout a few “Amens!”<br /><br />Every year Americans lather, rinse repeat. Retailers put up holiday displays in September. Or is it August? July? Everyone rolls his or her eyes, “Can you <span style="font-style: italic;">believe</span> they’re selling Christmas ornaments when the peaches have just hit the market?”<br /><br />But come Black Friday, Americans race in panic to the nations shopping centers fueled by a mix of adrenaline, guilt, and urgency to buy the perfect holiday gift in a month. The stores are ready to soothe this brew with towers of impulse buys for those who are truly desperate and toss up their credit in defeat. News anchors nightly play Chicken Little on the evening broadcasts threatening that the market might fall if not enough shoppers come out to stand in lines at 3AM to buy a plasma TV.<br /><br />We do it every year.<br /><br />It’s silly that retailers put so much hope in the last month of the last quarter of the year. Would you do that with your income?<br /><br />It’s a little crazy. Find the prefect gift for everyone you love in a month? Really?<br /><br />Come January, a great majority of those “perfect” gifts end up on the shelves of thrift stores. I believe this year’s perfect gift was an elaborate chrome wine bottle opener that looks like it needs to be affixed to the countertop. That much metal to pull a cork out of a bottle? These wine bottle openers are popping up on the shelves of my neighborhood Goodwill still in the box, unopened, like dandelions. Either they're not selling or there's been a mass donation. I've seen many.<br /><br />I spent January shopping for 2011 holiday gifts at my neighborhood thrift. I like shopping ahead. It takes away the stress and allows me to reflect. I walk in the store with no list in mind, open to possibilities. Ugh. If I could only stay in that open place for the rest of the day many new doors would open everywhere.<br /><br />To be honest, my haul wasn’t as prosperous as in year’s past though many amazing items, some at 5% their market value, were passed over. Cashmere sweaters from Neiman’s, new Ralph Lauren bags, new china from Crate & Barrel, loads of crystal; all would have been impulse buys had I felt the pressure. I did agonize over a set of four 20oz crystal goblets with intricate fern leaf etchings, stickers still affixed to the bottom. They were imported from Slovakia. I put them back on the shelf but turned back because I changed my mind. They were gone. (Sometimes I feel there’s a stalker following me in thrift stores. I’ve something in my cart they’re hoping goes back on the shelf. I've had cart envy many times but have never stalked.) I also spent some time agonizing over a new sweater dress from Free People with a retail tag of $168 contrasted to the $19.99 Goodwill tag. Twenty dollars is four times my $5 Flinch Point and I figured my daughter probably would not wear this item much, if at all. Had the hot breathe of holiday urgency been on the back of my neck, I’d have picked that sweater up in an instant and felt an empty satisfaction.<br /><br />What were my finds for the 2011 holidays this January? Ugh. Well, if I show them, my family and friends will not be surprised. I’ve no doubt they’ll know exactly what gift is for them and then they’ll have to wait a year to claim it. This will make me feel guilty and want to give early, like July, and then I’ll have to go in search of a new treasure to open come December 25th.<br /><br />Instead of showing off the lovely scores, I’m afraid we’ll stick to stats.<span style="font-weight: bold;"> I purchased eight gifts for $37 with an estimated conventional market value at around $250. </span>Yep, eight gifts for the price of two new hardback books. The average cost of each came in at $4.60 – 40 cents below my Flinch Point. I was also thrilled to find a gift for one of the three people that are a major gift challenge. We all have them. Best to take 11 months to seek their gift.<br /><br />Say I find an average of five gifts month at my $5 Flinch Point, as I stop by thrift stores while running errands through out the months ahead. I’d have at least 50 gifts come October! If I stick to my Flinch Point, 50 gifts totals $250!<br /><br />The reality, I won’t need to purchase 50 gifts and I’ll have wiggle room for bigger purchases for my daughters.<br /><br />How do I keep track of this entire gift inventory? Three large bins in the basement, like my very own store to shop. I try to package up items that need boxes before storing them and often pencil the name of the recipient on the box. It sounds tedious, but it reduces stress over time. And – get this – I even purchase new boxes, bubble wrap and excelsior at thrift stores. Weird.<br /><br />Should you decide to take up year-round holiday shopping, I beg that you not squirrel away items all over the home thinking you’ll remember where they are when needed. You won’t. I testify.<br /><br />I also had some fun with holiday money that relatives sent for me to purchase something for myself.<br /><br />I love old office equipment and found this 1940’s Arrow Fastener #9 Stapler for $4. About a year ago, Anthropologie sold a remake for about $80. Wow. I know, it's not shiny. It's not supposed to be! It's vintage!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs2FyG1MCgcpkLDMQkKf-41lP4oXhyfqW4rQwmaQXnvOtBGx8otybC0CV9iQgMpE9iAt8KcwKpbHnlcyOPi2IZTTgVeJxaA9UQJB2DVtJL1NYMkzOugPUxxClT1YCD7Yaq43z81ykZHDQw/s1600/staplerthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 283px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs2FyG1MCgcpkLDMQkKf-41lP4oXhyfqW4rQwmaQXnvOtBGx8otybC0CV9iQgMpE9iAt8KcwKpbHnlcyOPi2IZTTgVeJxaA9UQJB2DVtJL1NYMkzOugPUxxClT1YCD7Yaq43z81ykZHDQw/s400/staplerthethriftychicks.blogspot.com-0101.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568388762476063458" border="0" /></a>When Little Pie saw this stapler, she shouted, “Oh! That’s cool!” Makes me think I’m raising her right. Besides, children love old things. Ask them to draw a bathtub and I’d say there’s a 90% chance it’ll be a claw foot tub.<br /><br />We’re heading into Golightly birthday season. I bought several birthdays gifts too. But, that’s another post for another day.<br /><br />If you don't do it now, <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2009/07/are-you-holiday-pioneer.html">shop like a pioneer</a> and come November, you'll be relaxed and ready. Well, that's after you get over -as one reader put it - <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://thethriftychicks.blogspot.com/2010/12/gifting-anxiety.html">the annual gift pile panic</a>.Shopping Golightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04086883816963590796noreply@blogger.com14